Should I never marry, never have kids because of this...

honestly if he acts this angry and desperate on the internet I can only imagine the vibes he puts off in person.

I'm thinking back to the few times in my life I've been hit on by guys that just truly creeped me out in a 'you're probably a serial killer so stay the fuck away from me and don't follow me home ' kinda way, and I would be willing to bet he puts off those vibes. No one can walk around with that much anger inside of them without other people noticing.

 

lol.

• "Hey. When you gonna see me again?" @noon

• "*She responds.* @ work. blah blah. Coffee or something over break? I'll text you tonight*" @3

• "Sure. blah. Text me again later Champ " @3:50

Nothing that night, next morning or afternoon :daisy:

I lose patience @7pm next day. Kind of blast her out.

• So then we talk more rolleyes

• After that I sort've apologize & ask "Okay well you going to forgive me? When am I going to see you again?"

• She responds but completely ignores the "when am I going to see you again?" part. I flat-out quit texting her there.

So I got nothing when nice cooperative guy. I ironically get something when I'm blast her ass assrat-style. & she picks and chooses when and what to respond to. Where does this make me the terrible one?


Why should I be literally pulling teeth here? We talked about hanging out before the semester ended. Come text time we're back to step 0.

---- Oh let's remember the last chic that flaked on me after getting

"Thx for the invite <3."

&

"Ya I hope to see you/lol/confirmation"

---- --

Ya i'm so terrible. Where's your bloody insight?

Why not just admit there's a reason the best practical advice for a guy with a girl is "pretend you don't give a fuck." & Why does it matter what I text AFTER plans to hang out? HELLO. I'm not still judging her text-by-text.

So please tell me where I'm so terrible. I don't make vague plans to hang out with someone then flake or stop responding for any reason I secretly decided in my head about that person.

You say you want a nice attentive guy but you don't. It is kryptonite to success with a girl. Why not ovary up and admit it. A girl can be a b*** all she wants. A dude has to microscope his transactions to eliminate any sign of "neediness." As if... he's not supposed to want to see the person he's trying to court??

:|

 

I love all these girls who have decided I'm "creepy and desperate," and to "cool off."

Where the fuck did we decide all people need to be diluted, "chill" and whatever you decide?

Ya you said it exactly -- your stupid creepy radar is what frustrates a lot of guys. I've never stalked or creeeped a girl, or anything. Everytime something has fell through, I move on.

Kind of nice for you to sit on your undeserved-pussy throne and decide who and who isn't creepy over 3 texts, when you know NOTHING about the person, and when your obviously shitty personality is never at scrutiny. You really really should thank god you have a pussy and tits. It's the damn, damn truth.

 

"Thx for the invite <3"

after I've explained to you how I hate that most chics never invite from their own accord,

is acting like a freak?

OH GEE THANKS FOR DECIDING ALL HUMANITY. You are thy holy vagina pussy.

You are so fucking dense and judgmental, it hurts. This is exactly what I'm talking about.

 

If anyone has decided you're creepy or desperate its not because we've seen your game or have any clue if you're truly creepy or desperate, its because we've all seen you bitching about the exact same thing for a long time on here and you obviously carry a lot of anger and hatred towards women as a whole. Your anger has to be reflected in the way you act towards women, you can't hate an entire group of people as much as you do and not make it obvious....therefore, we assume based on your attitude towards women as a whole that you probably act like an angry asshole towards them and scare them off.

as far as your text, the girl just isn't into you. That's all. She acted a little flaky sure but that isn't a crime. Its not her fault she doesn't like you so you don't need to blame half of humanity for it.

 

^Scientific method displayed above, conclusion reached, prove us wrong kokujin, the way you are handling criticism is also proving our point.

We are also not saying you didn't have an unlucky string of bad girls you tried to start a relationship with but the way you've let them taint you and shape your future way of thinking is sad.

I don't mean to be cruel either, but I also want to add that if someone (female or male) carries those angry vibes, and then physically is a 6 or below in the looks department, the "creepiness, you're a serial killer" sensation is enhanced like 10 fold, and it is also enhanced again if you fit a racial stereotype.

It's sad but true.

 

my vents and frustrations, once a month on this forum don't reflect anything. let alone the fact that I'm getting boned in my sex life for being real and open with my "clinginess" (and I had to put the smiley for you to get the social point). You reign un-scrutinized, unflaked upon, because sorry, guys aren't that big of fickle ass assholes.

There's no good reason girl 1 didn't show up. I don't care if I sent her flowers, (which I didn't, not even close). And girl two decided somehow I wasn't worth her crap. Maybe she should've been damn honest.

Ya'll disrespect and don't undrestand attentive dudes too damn much and throw the clingly vibe way too damn quick. Maybe y'all enjoy a confident guy, but don't understand that takes a big ego and obnoxiousness, and there are guys who have that same ego, but choose to not fucking display it like they are the king of shit like I am now online.


'Cuz in real life, no. I'm pretty forgiving, gentle, and aware of others. Sorry I got extra actual atom energy that makes me at my indifferent best, still appear very aware of you, and that freaks you out, cuz you're shallow as shit.


omg YOU act like liking somebody is some magical fairy pussy. NO. It's a god damn choice. If you don't like me, don't talk to me. Don't approach me. Don't have cig breaks with me. Don't say yes when I ask for your number. Dont' say yes when I say let's hang out. DONT LET ME FUCKING KISS U ON THE CHEEK THEN BE LIKE "ok let's hang out."


girl was a little bit flakey? I guess that's golden for a girl not defending the shit out of a girl. She ignored me after 1 false move. That is some big ass bullshit.

I'm not blaming humanity. I believe I'm blaming 'feminine energy.' Grow up and have respect for ppl. FFS.

 

monkr I can't believe you. Your last girl who you dated for 2 years left you the moment you sent a long letter saying you loved her??

:|

I'm an 8 in looks. I'm a 14 in showing personality to those around me.

Please put 2 + 2 + 2 together.

 

dude you came to my wall and bitched me out because you didn't like the rep I gave you for talking to disabled people.


I don't know you and I'm not going to read your rambling. But seriously if the way you interacted with me is any indication to the way you interact with other women - you have a lot to learn before you get into a great relationship.

simmer down fool.

 

this is a forum. how dare I interact. go blow yourself. **this is an online blow-up/discussion. No one but your blimey ignorantly self-centered self acts this way in IRL.** I like how you read nothing and have an opinion. Great girl. You so hot. you deserve it all.


"the rep I gave you" -- you mean the negative rep you gave me with negative comments? I can't believe I gave negative comments back. Oh my god.


:| Female power. :sunny:

I wasn't even talking to disabled people. It was this thread.. I was talking to Melia..

Please stay out of this. You can't even read what I wrote that answers half your questions and yet you have "an opinion."

I want the 02:54 post to get looked at. So for now ignore me please?

 

^^^ case and point.

Throw your daggers down bro.

I can read, its your responsibility to articulate yourself adequately so others understand the intent of your speech.

 

cruisin for a bruisin. Imma get someone to beat you up. so you're the scum of the earth.

ya ofc I dont running around saying "bitches are shit" to people in real life. are you mental and remedial? Ya I behave, but I don't like what I see.

try reading my posts. I give people respect. You... don't. Wish you were 2 nothces not as hot. Then you'd suffer the shitty personality you have and the life it would bring you. Would be awfully deserving.

 

I bet you'd cheat on your "husband" if it felt right.

 

Nothces - please explain that word. its not in the English dictionary.

Actually I don't, I'm just as well accepting the nasty bitch I can be. lol! Thats the awesome part, loving me for me. And I just don't give a shit what people think!

If you really don't care, stop defending yourself against the 7 or 8 people who are hating on you here.


Its one thing to say something and not to give a fuck. Its another to run in circles defending yourself and attacking everyone.

 

Is that what the women in your life have done to you? Thats why you hate females, isn't it.

You do realize that the things you say to others say more about you than they do about them, right?

 

http://www.wordhippo.com/what-is/the-plural-of/notch.html

you knew what notch meant.

pluralize it. Get educated, "nasty bitch."

Don't need philosophy advice from... you. I'd just get way dumber. Holy fuck.

 

"dumber" isn't in the English dictionary either. Sincerely trying to help you here. hahaha


Look deep inside yourself and consider whether you would want to be your own friend. A wise person says no.

Someone get this guy chlorothiazide for his hypertension.

 

she meet me (online) 4 hours ago. she's so mad.


love your vagina. it's the only and sole reason anyone says 'hi' to you. thx for the shitty advice though. I hope your boyfriend beats me up. 'Gnight.

 

Um ok.. lol

 

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