Bradin - talk to him about it. We can't tell you what he's thinking, none of us here are psychics another sign would be if he mentions some of his turn ons with other people around, especially parental units. Hahah, lots of booze to get to that point, but it happens
I think teenage romance is a bit different. Even if you ARE boyfriend and girlfriend, it RARELY lasts...most of those are just for fun. Go with the flow and let it happen on its own... Oh here's another way you can tell if someone likes you more than a friend, he wants to buy you a nose ring because he wants you to wear something that he bought you... *sigh* *swoons*
It's funny that I ran across this thread...I have a situation @ my work with a woman who often talks about her lack of a love life and how she is looking for someone. However, according to her, I am the diametrical opposite of her physical requirements (she has a thing for BIG guys, believe it or not...any heavyweight guys, I may be able to 'hook you up', lol)...however, there's all these indications...she sits with me @ lunch, constantly initiates conversations, and even has taken to calling me a 'pet name', and laughs at all of my jokes (I am quite witty, though, lol)...we chatted the other day, and we both reaffirmed our indifference ( I say she's too crazy for me, she says that I'll 'never get some' from her). To top it all off, all of the women at work claim to see 'something' between us, and all of the guys tease me and ask if I'm hittin' it (how mature) becuase we're always together...so, ladies?...I trust your opinions. In spite of the fact that she denies any chance of us getting together, her actions leave room for interpretation. Is she just wanting me for a friend? I've always heard it said that you watch what people do and not what they say, and I've dealt with this type of opposites attract game before. What should I do? I don't think I'm going to pursue it, though.
I was at a gathering of friends earlier today and a female friend of mine was def. conversing and having a good time with me upstairs rather than spending time with her boyrfriend who was downstairs with most of the party. When she left she gave me a "high five" in which she grasped one or two of my fingers with her hand. How am I supposed to interpret this? I call it flirting. Maybe she's just friendly! *shrugs*
Ask her to go out and do something sometime...that's a start...maybe then you'll be able to see for sure if you have some "real" alone time. Good luck! OH gosh...I'm giving advice and I'm the one who created this thread. Something is very wrong here...
you can tell when you catch them looking at your face a lot, when you're not even doing anything or paying any attention to them... know what i mean? cosmo g -- it sounds like she really just wants to be friends... obviously she likes you, but i think the verbal comments about being indifferent verify that she doesn't want to take it farther... i've done that before, and i'd take it as that since you don't want to pursue it unless she's trying to play hard to get and purposely being confusing... but i'd hope she isn't really that immature...
you know usually id say yeah go get some but shit in this case thats just girls for ya. guaranteed that wouldnt have happened if she didnt have a bf. thats just what they do.
Alternatively, she has had a massive fight with her boyfriend and wanted to piss him off in any way she could...either that or the boyfriend wants to do you but is getting her to make the first move.
i don't know if that is necessarily true ... i've been with my soon to be husband for nearly 5 years and a guy at work tells me we should hang out all the time ... and he knows nothing will happen ... It's been a few years since i've been in the dating game but i remember that "look" that you get when someone likes you ... its hard to describe but you know it when you see it .... usually when you like them too you get that butterfly feeling in your stomach and when you don't have feelings for them you first thought is " ah shit, don't fall for me,"