Sounds kinda "weird" to me, but then again, how old are you? If you're 12 years old looking at 12 year old girls, okay. A grown man looking at little girls, getting tingling sensations is another story, skirt or pants, that's a problem. And, yes we can control our feelings. We have the choice to be happy, sad, mad, etc, and to control our desires. Ultimatly, it's a matter of freewill. What you want to do or not, feel or not, it's ALWAYS your choice.
Chris, I don't want to make you feel anything, that's up to you. We all have different opinions, and that's all my response was, my opinion. It's up to you how you want to take it. Anyways, it's all good.
Chris::::: 1st. I dont know what a "git" is ..... 2nd. you are using "quotes" by someone who lists their sex as "pussy". And NO I will not give it a rest, its winter here and I have a lot of time on my hands.
Exuse me? I hope thee's another brainstew on this site you think you can get smart with and get away with it because it sure isn't me! I am as smart as any other person so don't you ever use age against me. No one is paranoid here except for you and it doesnt matter where I live the feeling's mutual. I have the right to post my ideas on a puublic forum, I am the one acting like an adult, unstead of trying to intimidate someone because their belifs are different and THINKING I can get away with it because the person in young. I have a problem with men looking because it make me feel cheap like no on can see that I am smart, or strng, or resourceful, or loving or kind but just that I HAVE A NICE ASS OR NICE LEGS. do you have a problem with that>?
Being sixteen, I'm considered young; I believe that your arousal is perfectly acceptable. A lot of younger girls are developing at earlier age; it's normal to be aroused by a developed woman, and these girls are physically developed women. Pyschologically, though, many of these girls are not yet women so it's not okay to act upon your arousal. A natural response to the beauty of a woman is never, ever bad. Skirts are hot. End of story. Because you harbor your sexual responses, you are not a pedophile, and it's all good.
You're okay. Most guys do this. As long as you don't touch (which you made clear you will not and do not want to) it is okay as long as you are glancing and not staring.
Chris, guess what? You are NORMAL as can be. The way I see it is...if her parents, guardians or whatever are LETTING her dress like that...look all you want!!!!! That is their fault for letting their "underage" girl dress like that in this world. But, that doesn't mean for you to act on those urges physically. Of course you dont want to be a pediphile, sex offender, etc. But if its in front of you...shit look!!! Just dont do anything physically cuz that will bite you in the ass!
I doubt you're a bad guy. But it does bother me when a kid gets checked out. It's creepy. But a glance, you can't help a glance. Beyond that...I disagree with the people who've said that it's okay to go ahead and look. It's not okay to rake your eyes over a 12 year old girl's body, regardless of how they're dressed. I mean, if kiddie porn popped up (damn popups.) you'd glance because...naked flesh! Party! And of course your boy parts would start getting revved up, because they heard "party!" But the moment you realize that it's not a legal adult you'd click out as quick as all hell, right? If not, then yes...something's seriously wrong with that.
There are plenty of fully grown women in the world who wear short skirts..... Leave the kids alone hey? Maybe you go and talk to someone about this....a counsellor ?
Well I WOULDN'T hit on a girl that was a kid, or eye one up, and i've got more sense than that and manage to keep my actions under control, and please DON'T try to make me feel worse.
No not trying to make you feel worse.. If you post at a public forum then expect honest answers!! What if one day you did feel like acting upon your urges Isnt that worth thinking about? Dont you want to find out why you are drawn?
Fair enough I suppose. Well i'd do my very best to keep it under control, and if I was worried enough that i'd be like this to the point where I have great difficulty controlling my actions, then i'd discuss it on this forum and see what you lot have to say. Well if it's getting out of control, then talking about it may help. Well it's not as if anyone will be able to tell me and I don't need someone trying to psycho-analyse me.
No didnt psychoanalyse at all.... You are VERY defensive about this...which shows you are worried... I admire your honesty and courage about admitting your feelings.... but think your defensiveness is a little uncalled for maybe you are not open to other people's viewpoints in which case I cannot do anything to help you.... good luck
Well it really isn't that much of a big deal, and obviously I was worried a little, but as i've got older i've learnt to control this and resist the temptation to look. Had it been 3-6 years ago when I was only 12-15, i'd have had more difficulty. In the past 3 years, i've really grown up, and I am now 18.
