slut or not

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by xXx_RuBiKs_CuBe_xXx, Aug 30, 2004.

  1. xthevalkyriex

    xthevalkyriex Member

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    I don't know, I still think "slut" is a term that is used to demean sexually active women. Therefore, I find it offensive. But that's just me.
     
  2. TenCentArcade

    TenCentArcade Banned

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    Fun fact: There is no mysoginist conspiracy. Mysoginists are too stupid to conspire.


    The term slut is used for anyone, male or female, who abuses sex.
     
  3. TheLittleOne

    TheLittleOne Senior Member

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    oh my god, when will it end....tencentarcade thinks everyones a slut..ok who cares? we got it....
     
  4. peaceful420

    peaceful420 Member

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    Nope. You're not a slut. You're sexually liberal. And if anyone calls you a slut, whatever. Girls who have sex with two guys are called sluts, so who the fuck knows. It's a meaningless and general word anyway.
     
  5. Genesis

    Genesis Member

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    sex with 7.
    2 of which were best friends. *laughs*


    it all depends.


    from the very first fuck to the very last fuck how long a time was that?


    was it a few months.


    was it a year.

    etc...


    that would probably break it down a bit better.
     
  6. Butters

    Butters Senior Member

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    I only qualify girls as "sluts" (I hate that word...) when they just sleep around with any guy at all, no matter who he is, his personality, etc.
     
  7. Genesis

    Genesis Member

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    *shudders*


    ugh at discos in waterford,i swear in the middle of the dance floor there ws a circle of people dancin and in the middle was two people havin anal sex....then you look to all the couches....people just sitting casually then just gettin up on top of someone and ridin em unprotected...people as young as 12 like.


    then they'll move on to someone else....thats sluttin around.
     
  8. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    that made me shudder too... that's scary.
     
  9. Genesis

    Genesis Member

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    the people who do it are scumbags like ..... im glad i never went to one....i'd probably vomit or summit.
     
  10. kitsune

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    there is one school of thought that states that having sex without actual love depletes the ability to actually associate sex and love together making the combination of love and sex which is greater than the sum of its parts impossible thus sex should only happen when true love is present, another school of thought states that love and sex can exist independantly and therefore it can be had for simply the pleasure without ruining or changing anything


    i am left therefore to conclude that it is either different from person to person or that people who had sex without love the first time ruined their ability to test this theory via an involuntary paralax

    since one side will never be able to test if being in love the first time makes it more meaningful and the other side being hopless romantics will not enjoy sex as much without love do to individual psycology causing a stalemate in discussion
     
  11. northernlehigh97

    northernlehigh97 Senior Member

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    Doesn't anyone want to save something for marriage? Once virginity is lost what else is left to offer?
     
  12. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    if you dont get to experience sex before committing to soemone for the rest of your life, how the hell can you know that you'll be able to satify and be satisfied??? sex is not the most imporant thing in a relationship but it's essential between a man and a woman who share their lives together. Virginity is just a myth...you can offer honesty, respect, friendship, trust, companionship and most importan love. If someone had only virginity to offer, i dont think I'd be too satisfied. there's more to it.
     
  13. northernlehigh97

    northernlehigh97 Senior Member

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    Because if you only have sex with one person how do you know what your missing. I agree it's not the most important thing, but 17 and 7 guys I think is over doing it. If you need that many to find out, there's a problem.
     
  14. Genesis

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    i suppose though if you're marrying someone you're already giving them all the above. your purity would be a nice ad on.



    i say why not. chastity seems like a pretty good idea.
     
  15. april922

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    as long as no one gets hurt emotionally and she doesnt have any std's..i dont think anyone has a right to judge.
     
  16. TripAmerika

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    Nobody can say whether or not the girl mentioned is a slut or if she is JUST sexually liberal based on the information provided.
     
  17. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    it all depends. did she fuck one guy after another. does she flaunt her body and portray herself as being a slut by hanging all over random guys? it doesnt matter how many guys shes been with its all how she presents herself. would you call me a slut cuz ive slept with 22 different ppl and more than 50 ppl ive been with sexually?
     
  18. Amontillado

    Amontillado Member extraordinaire Lifetime Supporter

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    Are there still people who let the word "slut" pass their lips? It sure says something about anyone who uses it--that they're cruel, that they're prejudiced, that they live in the past, that they don't like women, that they aren't overloaded with imagination--all kinds of stuff, none of it good.

    We don't have to agree with what other people do, but we can say what we think without saying worse things about ourselves.
     
  19. kppdlevel1

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    Yeah. She's a definate ho-bag.
     

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