Slutty or not

there is nothing wrong with looking at somebody else when you are already in a relationship. It's like window-shopping, it's ok to have a look as long as you don't get your wallet out!

 

everyone looks, youd be lying if you said you didnt...
its not like you walked up to him and said, I want to *insert sexual act here* and saying things like, you are hotter than my boyfriend, I hate him and blah blah blah..
you looked, no big deal..
and I think I use the term slutty when I see a male out whorin around, but it seems to always get classifed with females...

 

you're only slutty if you're trashy and allow yourself to be used by guys as a dumpster for their emotions, inadequacy and sperm, if you control your sexuality, a stake of control in your relationships, and self respect you aren't a slut

that simple

just my assesment

 

NO NO NO! Here is my rule for me and my girls.

There is nothing wrong with looking at the menu as long as you eat at home!!!!

Greg

 

*ahem* guys can be sluts or slutty too...

 

lol very true...

 

Totally agree with the respect part... but is it even "slutty" if you "allow yourself to be used..." or is it just unfortunate? I mean, I'm sure this is not what you're going for, but under that logic, women in emotionally/physically/psychologically abusive relationships would be deemed "sluts." My whole thing is that there is usually an emotional reason WHY people use sexuality to fulfill themselves in a "slutty" way... (Again, I'm not equating non-monogamy with "slutty.")

 

I don't see anything wrong with looking at other people...and I think everyone does that. I won't be obvious with it in front of someone I'm dating though,I just won't...out of respect for him and because I wouldn't want to take the chance of making him feel bad.

 

slutty no, but rude yes, when i was with my ex heather, we were at the mall of america and we were walkin by hooters, now i don't think i know a single guy in the world that could walk right by hooters without lookin! I glanced over and whap , she belted me right in the back of the head i was like damn ouch that hurt and she said if i'm not good enough for you , you can just take me home! So i get belted one and then i had to apologize, lookin back on that one time i'd say its wrong.