Honestly - what happens here is you stroke her with your dick - cum - and move on. What's the big deal. It ain't searching for a eternal commitment - it rubbing your hot and hard inside her slippery and tight. Uhhh - and yeah - leave her son out of it - that's just gross.
a son and husband are different, sure. And two people can be attracted to each other and should be entitled to have sex... but it's the ramification (in this instance it's that it will hurt somebody else). And if you think by not telling him that makes it alright, no, that just makes you an asshole. If i'm attracted to someone does that mean I should be allowed to fuck them on a park bench in front of the young children feeding the ducks? Nope. That is a completely different issue, a different ramification to having sex, sometimes it's not just about the two people doing it. I hope your friends bang your mothers.
I think if I was in the mother's position: I would want my son to be enough of his own person that he wouldn't be traumatized by my choice of actions. This would be a choice that I would be making for myself. Yes, other people are involved: the husband. If I loved my husband and knew it would hurt him to sleep with another man, I could never cheat on him. However, if Vanilla Gorilla is right (in that the husband won't care) then what's the problem? A parent gives up A LOT for their child: to raise them and everything, that doesn't mean they should sacrifice even more just because that child 'feels uncomfortable.' This woman probably just wants to have a new experience, release some tension (that her husband didn't satisfy) and was given an outlet by OP. She is more complicated than "I should act the way that satisfies the people around me, rather than myself." She's an older woman: if it's not her time to do something for herself yet, when will that be? If my mother banged my friend: yes, it would be weird, but that's why I wouldn't want to know. I know it's none of my business. I don't understand her and she may have desires that I can't relate to. Who am I to judge? But that's just my two cents.
Oh noes! What's the big deal? Sexual attraction can be a strange and sometimes complicated topic. I'd be weirded out for sure, but I don't really care enough to be hurt. I'd honestly just prefer to be in the dark about it all. And more importantly, I'd be like wtf Mom, what about Dad? haha Oh well, I guess some people are more concerned with their mother's sex life? I'd be more concerned with how it was all handled. :sifone:
I wish someone would say what they actually thought, and not what they thought someone else would want them to say. In light of the amount of guys who get angry when a friend says they want to bang their sister, I can honestly say I do not believe a word of it. And if everyone here thinks like that, it must just be some deranged hippie thing.
This was a good post Robyn. :2thumbsup: Yea, if somthing like this were to happen involving my mother, it's not any of my business, nor would I ever even want to know. I don't talk to my mother about the women I've slept with, I expect her to extend the same courtesy to me. Two completely separate businesses.
so your mum probably wouldn't mind it if you fucked the next door neighbour? The lady she has tea with on sunday afternoons? :frown:
Sorry you don't believe me, but I was honest. And I don't think what I have been saying is deranged, but I guess that is a matter of perspective. I know now I would never fuck your mom, how about that? :daisy:
If I had things my way my mother would never find out. If for some reason she did, no, I doubt she'd care. She'd probabaly wish she hadn't found out. Bottom line is adults have sex. And who somebody has sex with is their business. As long as the kids (or parents) aren't involved, then it isn't their business. I.E.- If this guy some how finds out and is upset, he (in my opinion) has to either A) Grow up and learn how to handle sex like an adult, or B) Should not be concerned about his mother's sex life because that just seems really unhealthy to me. Edit: I actually did know a women once in her older thirties who was a friend and neighbour of my mother's (they lived in the same building). This woman often commented to my mother how handsome I was, and this woman and I would sometimes run into each other and talk for a bit. My mother just found the whole thing pretty humorous to be honest. She was probably also a little flattered that people find her son handsome. No big deal.
this would of been so much better a post, should it read .. "i almost sucked off my dads friend, and my dad dont know im gay".. 60 replies to what you should do, you might as well suck a dick, if you aint going to fuck her..