Or, if the thread had read, "I fucked a friend's mom" it would be 35 pages of high fives and "awesome man". The moral aspect of the equation would be completely eliminated as the act would have already taken place.
I think that if this thread could talk and told me to stay the hell away from its mother I'd probably assume that it has unhealthy possession issues with regard to its mother.
somewhat true, I had worked in a metal hospital where someone had taken advantage of a retarded person. after interviewing the retarded person, and they had given consent. The offender was still charged with sexual misconduct. given the retarded persons legal age is over 18, The mental age of them is only 5yr old... In the courts it would be a mess, so Im sure it was "nolle pros'ed, and no further actions we taken.. offender was fired though.
That's what I was getting at. If someone told me to stay away from their mother, I'd wonder why they were so possessive of her. If it was a matter of the mother having a relationship with a guy who's an asshole, that's one thing. But if it was a matter of the mother having just a sexual fling once, maybe a few times with some guy, I don't see any reason why her kids should know, let alone be involved in the matter.
Look, it would be damaging to any child if one of their peers fucked their mother. But what doesn't damage children? They're so small and frail anyway I say Fuck 'em!
i suppose with each other, tbh it confused me too. there are many psychology books and stuff they make you read just to be a guard at a hospital with mentally challenged people... I was reading stuff on child development, that how they consider them as children....
I don't want to fuck my mother. I just don't want my friends to. I don't want them to fuck my father either, or my sister, brother, dog (ex-girlfriend). I think it's all about respect, is all. If people think i'm messed up for that, then fair enough what more can I say.
That is odd. So if someone is mentally challenged and they consent, what, that doesn't count? They deserve to have sex too. I saw a documentary a few weeks ago with a woman who had a pretty massive stroke years ago. She could basically only move her head back on forth, but her eyes couldn't really focus and the rest of her could barely move. Her family however knew exactly what she wanted based on the sounds she made with her throat; they knew when she was hungry, sad, lonely, happy (she could still smile), etc. She ended up (I don't know how) meeting a man who she developed a relationship with, the family was cool about it. He said at first he was very awkward around her, mostly because he didn't know her mannerisms yet. He said later on though after he learned her behaviour, he knew when she was clearly initializing sexual relations with him and that she could in fact consent (due to her noises, smile, etc.). They ended up having a perfectly normal relationship with a perfectly healthy sex life. It was pretty interesting to see. Anyways, all I was getting at is that people who are less able can, I'm sure, consent to sex. It's pretty inhumane to deprive them of that right and pleasure just because the authorities are unsure of how one seriously consents to sex.
I completely understand where you're coming from. I just don't think children (including adult children) should be involved in any way in their parents' sex lives. I don't think either point of view is messed up.
trust me you should fuck her. I've been in that same situation except it wasn't my friend's mom it was his sister.
A text message. You are worked up over a text message. And what is more amazing. There are 5 pages of people trying to give you advice and commenting on this. Boy the world not only sucked less but was a lot less lame before the Internet and cell phones.