So I asked a Lady for her number, Advice?

Oh yes I cant wait it's my fav part of the night, yeee haaa gandmar

 

ok i can understand that , maybe she just wasnt looking to get involved at that moment , maybe if you see her again things might be different . Are you going to go back to that bar again any time soon?

 

No I wont be going back to that bar for a while,

It's cool tho if I don't see her again,

I Just like the feeling of lust I think,

 

Its obvious that you felt you had a connection with her , why not go back and try again , you never know , maybe next time it might just be the right time , just a thought .

 

Through out my life I have had many encounters like this

Some at pubs others at festivals some times just random events

I never go back with intent to re-enact the moment

In this case I gave her my number

That was my last resort and only option at that point in time,

My friends are going out tonight so I could go out but I won't.

I don't think I'll rember this a year from now ,

So is it rely worth It?

 

that's a great thought, the biggest reason for failure is the lack of Perserverance.

If you fail try and try again,

 

very true :2thumbsup:

 

Some Time Ago You Said You Were Moving To Perth, And You Promised To Tell

Us Stories Of Your Trip Across This Vast Land....

Did You Make It To Perth, Or Change Your Mind And Stay In Your Home Town...?



Cheers Glen.

 

Wow Mr glen you have an extra ordinary memmorie bank

Yes I'm In perth and yes what a crazzy trip,

I seen every thing you could imagen and way more,

I'll right about it some day soon, plus some of the crazzy events after being here,

 

Love Ya Man...:grouphug:...*no homo*...



Cheers Glen.

 

I wouldn`t.

Yes. IMO, dating is properly done with multiple women. Marriage, commitment, etc. is what you do with only one.

My guess is, she will not call.

a) My advice is to call the girl over when there is eye-contact multiple times, instead of walking up to her. You`re taking the trouble of initiating, so I feel she should take the trouble of coming over. If you initiate and come over, you`re putting her on a pedestal, and you`ve got a one-sided relationship from the start.

b) The other advice I`d give you is, don`t get her number. Get her facebook, e-mail, etc.

c) I would also dance only when I felt like dancing. If what you feel like doing is having sex, or meeting women, then put your efforts on that. I don`t passive-aggressively do something else in order to have sex/meet women. My favorite pick up line is: "Sorry if I am direct, but I noticed we were looking at each other. I find you attractive and I`d like to get to know you. Would you like to...?"

d) Last but not least, I favor short coffee dates in a central location, with a time-constraint (25-45 mins. works for me) over drawn out dinner and movies on the first date. Show up early and get your tea or coffee. Have her pay for hers.

Good luck.

 

:love: Ha Ha glen

Make sure you have your number on hand for when I see you next,

:sunny:

 

How does this work better are people more inclined to give out them details as aposed to a number?

I will use this next time I call a lady over to me,

Lots of useful advice I appreciate it

 

You`re welcome.

Numbers are too personal and awkward for me. I`m also not so sure about women I don`t know having my number, because some of them might want to call every five minutes and control my life.

But, most of all, it`s too "romantic."

Anything that is romantic doesn`t fit my personality. If you`re romantic, you`re going to end up with a marriage-happy fatty who`s no good in bed.

My whole spiel is to simply act like an aloof friend, and have fun. I treat girls like guys unless I`m in bed with them. Actually, I feel I should be a little bit rougher with women than I am with guys. After all, I initiated the relationship, and that should come with some perks.

But, that`s just me. I like sex freaks, and women who are independent. My shtick probably won`t work with the little princesses or prudes, unless they are sick and tired of doormats not making her cum, and feel like being with an unromantic guy like me for the night.

But, even then, ya gotta pass most of them up because they are layer-therers in bed and they have zero feelings for you. They just want cock fast.

 

I think if you know what you want you will get it,

If you focus on what you don't want you will get what you don't want

I don't see how being a romantic will end you up with a marriage-happy fatty who's no good in bed,

and that's only bad if that's what your not after, in that case you wouldn't put your self in that predicement,

If you cant tell I am a bit of a romantic and think there is nothing better then to show the one you love how much you care about them,

Sounds like you have your game plan working in tip top preformance

keep up the great work,

 

Most wimp guys or pussy-pedestal men are gonna tell you that you were pushy. Truth is, she came over probably because you were, and had the balls to take her rejection (lol twice). Some women work this way.

I firmly believe when women do none of the chasing, you really shouldn't be worrying about chasing 'properly' AND being nice AND doing it her way. Just toss that ish out the window. Don't be a COMPLETE prick, maybe.., but it's really all your prerogative and style.

I definitely wouldn't challenge every chic who turns you down for a number but I think you should definitely feel yourself worth it enough to do so if it's one you're interested in, (rather than always tucking your tail behind your ass and walking away).

All is fair in love and war. Have fun out there.:daisy:

 

Sweetheart ~ she's married

 

You know what that never occoured to me and it would make perfect sense

I never thought to ask her if she was married or look for a ring on her finger.


would a irish lady staying on a visa that has been in australia for 2 months

be out clubbing with her sister and danceing with other men if she was married?

Just courios why do you say she is married?

 

Because I'm married and that's the exact response guys get from me when they approach me while I'm out with the girls.

 

wouldnt it just be easy and simple if you just said I'm married,

or fuck off that one always seems to work ,

Just saying