So what am I?

I'm sure they prefer you Jenna.

 

You're way ahead of where I am or ought to be sexually! So I feel weird about giving you any sexual perspective. But here it is lol.
Sexual preference is just that: preference. You might've had sexual experiences and found some of them are for you and some of them are not. You might even try some out just to be sure! In the end you look back and determine which ones are for you and which ones aren't...and hopefully have plenty of the ones that are!
You clearly prefer guys but are willing to admit you have a good "girls only" time too. That technically applies to bisexuality without thinking about it too deeply and considering if you're experienced in both sexes, consideration for trans, etc. I guess you can try to figure out a percentage between the two. But keep in mind moods change especially typically with bisexuals, so numbers might not reflect who you are at any given moment.
I would say you're bi but lean significantly towards dick and leave it at that. Maybe that's all there really is to say.

 

Jenna. Is it safe to say you do pussy too??

 

Jenna loves all cocks

 

I used to think like that, until I learned the terms hetero-romantic, bi-romantic, and homo-romantic. I wish I knew those terms in college! The prevalent thinking then that bisexual was just a stop on the train to gay town, ie all bi guys were really just afraid to admit they were fully gay, and that bisexual also meant bi or homo romantic - were harmful and confusing to me?!

Both then and now, I still have zero desire to be romantic with a man in terms of dating, being a couple, living together, growing old with, etc.
At most I had maybe a brief bi crush with an older student who I was about to room with, but that fell through. It was more about being excited to strengthen a warm, budding friendship and to be around all the sex he had with multiple women as a male stripper! Hoping my virgin self would get action from at least one of the overly horny women, or their friends?

If it had been clearer to me that being bisexual and hetero-romantic was a real and common thing (as Kdaddy mentioned), I would have enjoyed more exploration of my sexual desires without the fears of falsely being labeled as gay! Not that there is anything wrong with being gay, it just was not who I am? And I didn't want to take heat at the time for being something I was not.

I wish I could go back to my college self and tell him that, and that there are plenty of bi and straight women who are into to bi guys!

 

Yes…but definitely not as much

 

You go to the head of the class!

 

Thank you!

 

Quite the conundrum.
my first ever sexual experiences were way back in my late teens/early 20s, were with my neighbor buddy. A couple years of frequent oral sex. Never even thought about being bi/gay….. it was just two buddies having fun. Long before girls! But once women became available, I never thought again about dudes. my ex-wife and current wife…. a lot of fun.
When my current wife started pegging me, and saying things like I bet a real cock would feel better….. that got me thinking. Age and menopause totally screwed up the woman that I thought was my sexual soulmate,. so now in my later years, my desires have shifted! I would sure like to find like-minded married bi guy,. go to a bar together, play some golf or tennis together, and then go someplace and live out our mutual desires. A safe discrete top that I would willingly bottom to! a guy can only dream!
Confession over….

 

Love this discussion! I have history of being bi, and for a short time many years ago I had a girfriend who was also my roommate (which was probably the only reason why we ended up having sex) But the only 'bi' thing about for the past many years is mixing it up with my guyfriends and girlfriends whenever we get together. But that doesn't happen nearly as often as it did until about 2 years ago. But my point is that I. Love. Dick! and have as much of that as I can handle!

So now I am pretty much a Kinsey 1 and very polyamorous, and when other girls are there we're all gong to 'appreciate' each other. Orgy!

Jenna my friend I think that I'm a lot more like you now than I used to be, except that I love 4 of my guy friends a little or a lot.

Question, rhetorical mostly, there probably is not a real answer to this.... if a hetero guy loves fucking my ass as much as my pussy, would that make him at least a teensy bit bisexual?

 

Only if he could get his head around the obvious fact that there's a guy under him and he's waiting to get them cheeks beat up...

 

Lena, Well,,first I would call him lucky. Second, I think you have a bit but labels are over used. I think they pressure people to conform. I ttuly think we all have some bi vibe in us. I am certainly polyamorous as well

Peace and love

 

Hey Jenna...you are a sexual human being with female attributes who enjoys giving & receiving pleasure.

If we stop worrying about the label and just enjoy life...take the drama & haters out of the equation. You don't by chance live just around the corner...do you? Have a great day of sexual pleasure.

 

Hopefully, kind.

 

I’m in Norway…you in Sweden?

 

I certainly do try!

 

I think about that myself often. Back when I was younger it was just common knowledge that anyone that had any sexual contact with another guy was really gay. I’d have these amazing fantasies about sex with a guy and afterward feel ashamed and actually question if I was in fact gay. I wish I could go back and be like nah man it’s ok have your fun then go get married to a woman. 22 year old me could have had A LOT of fun lol.