sometimes when you have hurt someone so bad thier is no fixing it. Sometimes the best thing for the two of you is to move on. but if you move on to another person right away, it will cause hatred in this other person that you are leaving. if you choose to move on from this person, dont hook up with the new person right away. be friends with this person, and make sure that you are completely over the old person before you say a thing, otherwise you will risk hurting everyone, including yourself. Take it from someone who just went through it(and still is).
thank you mistress Oo...I just envisioned being on my knees saying that :shivers: I think you are so right...I need to be me for awhile ya know...worry bout the kids and get to know myself again... ((hugs)) you really are a sweetie o..and thank you to everyone else too