Sole mate searching

its like 1 below here and i gotta walk home in it

 

Come to New Zealand, it's the middle of summer here

 

it is nowhere near that cold here.. but having always lived in Texas it feels cold to me...

 

Hi everyone! :^) I'm in New Mexico. It has been unusually cold here. It will be more typical NM one day, clear and sunny and comparatively warm, and then like Transylvania the next. I find that I appreciate the nice weather when it is not constantly bright and hot.

 

Huh all you lucky buggers in hot countries! Bright here which is a nice change but still damn cold.

And to stay slightly on topic, soul mates are incredibly rare so don't despair if you haven't found one yet! Consider, if there's one person for you that leaves 5,999,999,998 other people.. it'll happen just have patience.

 

that is soooo ture.. and to be honest i dont actually believe in everyone having one soul mate... One person out of 6 million possibilities is a hard concept for me to wrap my mind around.. I just dont follow.. lol

Oh here in Texas the coldest so far this year has been like 30ish.. And I think that is arctic.. =] And it has been rainy.. ick..

 

Yeah. Taking that concept more seriously it is not a triviality to find the ultimate one, the "Bashert". To quote Bram Stoker's Dracula; "The luckiest man on this earth is the one who finds true love."

On that note I'm afraid I don't really believe in it for myself. I seem to spend most of my life alone and then have periods of intense involvement. I can and do love quite deeply from time to time, but I think that all souls are related to varying degrees in one way or another. Not to be a party pooper. :^)

 

Heehee I dont think you are a party pooper..

And it is obvious that there are a variety of people that you could be happy with.. And I have deeply loved one and there is no way that we would ever be again and at the time i felt as tho he was perfect for me, but in the one soul mate mind set that would mean that i had missed my chance and am forever fucked [excuse the language] on that one.. Not that i have necissarily loved again, yet.. But i havent ruled out the possibility.. =]

 

Hey, dramaticl0v3. I'm not easily offended by fucking language. :^) Glad that you haven't written off all future possibilities based on one relationship. I think that women in particular are set up to think in terms of this perfect magical monogomous event. I also think that men and women are set up to seek different things. Traditionally men are sold this Hustler fantasy while women are sent after a fairy tale unfolding on a wedding cake. As far as I can tell anyway. Nevermind that women like sex, too, and at least some of us men can be very emotional and connected and attached. I am still not really over a crazy party girl, a "bad girl," that got herself into a bunch of trouble.

 

Omg such long replys i got bored halfway through and well.....i decided that ima search sum more. i have a attention span of a nat sometimes

 

Oh I have a friend that thinks that her soul mate is going to be this perfect guy that she has created in her mind that her god is going to send to her.. *Makes face as tho she is about to gag* And if the guy she is dating is him, ahahahaha that is so sad.

 

Yeah! So she will try to will him into being that fantasy. That is how you end up trapped in a lie. (I speak from experience as I was the fodder of a girl's fantasy. All unhappily married and stuff.)

You know what's funny on that note about all this. I have gone for months and months, not a damned thing going on, and now last night I am in touch with like 4 women locally through a personal site that had been a total dead zone. I was on no favorites lists and now I am suddenly on 2 of them. One in particular who I am to call seems really cool. Why does it always seem to work that way? Have I been visited by the relationship fairy or something?! When it rains it pours. Could all be gone tomorrow of course! :^)

 

Oh ya don't get bored!

Dramaticl0v3, I think I kind of have a crush on you! That is a nice picture. Nice piercings... Those pretty, pretty eyes! Baring in mind that I am all far away and would be considered old. (Please don't ask! :^) And don't take it too seriously. I do that sort of thing. Can't be helped.

 

Yay! I have a crusher.. I hardly ever get those.. And I dont think you are creepy =] that would be odd of me since you are my soul mate after all.. And I am assuming you are saying dont ask how old?

 

Cool. And yes. :^) Why wouldn't you get crushers? One of these girls I was supposed to call beat me to it and called me. I am supposed to meet her this afternoon. Like soon, soon. And she is young. Not as young as you are. It's a weird predicament. I am young for my age. So now I meet this girl. I'm all nervous! (Silly I know.)

 

hey now im calling dibs! shes mine....

 

yay a forum fight over meeee.. I am thoroughly impressed.. And no i dont normally get crushers..

And how is it a wierd predicament if she called you? and good luuuck!

 

c told ya my snuggle buddy! HA!

 

Can we maybe share her?! I think she's pretty cool. And cute. And nice. :^)

I met that girl. I know she's trouble, and probably not right for me. Then there are more that I need to address and the whole thing stresses me out honestly! Meeting people and expectations and blah! I think it should feel comfortable first and foremost. I don't really like being all alone in the world, a wee lost bleeting lamb, ^) but dealing with people kind of stresses me out. On that cheerful note, hope everyone is doing well.

 

Oh trust me i feel your pain. I am horrible at dating, I just dont know how to actually.. I always feel awkward at first, I wish you could go in like it was already established so the awkwardness wasnt present..