Sole mate searching

Hi, Soulmate. :^) It's nice to have someone to talk to about it at least. In some ways online "relationships" might be the best kind. (In other ways they're obviously not, unless they advance the technology quite a bit.) There is another girl who I am to call. She seems really nice. I hope you're doing well.

 

We`ll all be your soulmate
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I hope this one goes well.. There is a guy in one of my classes that i believe is flirting with me but i am not so good at decifering those things.. lol

 

Hey. Thank you. I was just thinking that it's ideal when you are in a situation with people where you are actually around each other rather than just flailing about anonymously in some Darwinian dating pool. (Well maybe all "dating pools" are Darwinian by nature.) I talked to Elisabeth briefly on the phone. She seems very nice, more together than Tabetha I would bet. Maybe too together, though, in a way. I don't know if she could deal with a grown man with sheet plastic on all his carpeting to accomodate a free-roaming house rabbit! To say nothing of weird artwork in progress connected to a novel, also in progress, in my living room. (The plastic also is good for paint spatters.) Elisabeth informed me that she is marriage minded, (FEAR!), yet I have this wild hair (Wild hare?) to see if I might not be able to broaden her horizons in some respects. Get her to tie one on and hit the tattoo shop.

The guy is more than likely flirting with you! If you are the individualitic girl at a conservative school you probably seem like an oasis of cool and fun in a sea of stuffed shirts. You also clearly seem laidback and unassuming, which is very charming. On that note, I never feel too sure what to make of those situations either. Have a good one. And thanks for returning to the soulmate thread, dramaticl0v3. :^)

 

Hmm.. It is always a bummer when the first thought a person has is if we date we have to be heading to marriage.. But you never know, she may be more fun than she seems..

I hope he is.. He did tell me that i remind him of Austin [Tx] and he liked that =]

 

Hey. Right on. You remind him of Austin? Hmmm. :^)

The bad girl called me last night. We have transportation issues right now but we did laugh our butts off for a spell talking on the phone. Why is it that, for me at least, the bad girls are the coolest and the most fun? Why can't someone be cool and fun without being trouble? For some reason I don't like people who are totally uptight and dead inside. I can't imagine why but it's true. Is there something wrong with me? Maybe I should ask Dear Abbey or something.

I don't know.
The gears are squeaking and the wheels are turning.
The gods are speaking and my ears are burning.
One love lost and another to gain.
Yet I know the cost at the least is pain.

Replace my heart with one of stone?
They can't tear that apart
I could remain alone.

Or something! :^) I kind of love you. I hope that's okay.

 

The bad ones are always the best.. Maybe that is why I am less desirable lol I am such a lame-o.. Last night was the first time I have drank in forever and today i remember why.. lol That is just not my thing.. But it is great that yall had a connection on the phone.. In the words of Miss Monroe "If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything" And that is so true =]

Nice poem, I like that. =]

 

So, did you hear the one about... LOL! :^)

New picture!

You DO seem nice, and very sweet, which has its own appeal. I mean like miss marriage fiend, (I may want to hang out with her just to ask why {In the hell, el oh well!} she has this marriage objective.), would not seem like a "bad" girl, but she doesn't really seem *nice*, either. Don't know if that makes sense.

Well, talk to you later, Soulmate. XOXO. :^)

 

That might turn out interesting.. I mean I like long-term relationships but I dont necissarily think about it in terms of marriage.. You have to walk before you can run.. I think it takes a while to know that you could live with someone forever.. but that is just me =]
I think i get what you mean about not bad but not nice either.. kinda.. lol

I think in my new picture i kinda look like a little kid.. hehe but i mean i have always looked young which should work out for me later in life..

 

Hey. You are cute! You do look young. I thought you were younger than you are until I looked at your age. :^)

 

And, um, yeah. I would not think marriage an impossibility for me, but this notion of making it an objective I find bewildering and kind of whacked really.

 

Yeah I get that a lot.. 17 is the average and 14 is the youngest I have gotten.. Maybe it is bc i dont really ever wear makeup, but I am not going to wear it just to look older either.. Wouldnt want to be misleading to anyone.. lol Plus I am just not that motivated, I figure you will either like me or not.. Oh and I have bed head most of the time, I usually look like a mess but i think people think i work hard at it or something.. =]

 

Yeah that notion about marriage is a little crazy.. I dont even really care to ever get married, I just want commitment at some point..

 

Hey. With the right person I would gladly commit. I did the marriage thing (For the wrong reasons.), and for me it seemed like there should have been a timeclock inside the door for when I got home. Kind of a relationship buzz killer!

 

And I hadn't seen the other post! You look like your hair might have been green recently? More importantly, you're adorable. Yep! :^)

 

Yeah.. That sounds no bueno.. I come from a small east texas town where girls' high school agenda is to get married soooo those end up bad, and I am just not really in a hurry to do anything to be honest.. I am a procrastinator by nature so it applies to all aspects of my life other than just studying [[which i was supposed to do today, and guess what i didnt do?]]

 

Ahh, my hair is green, it is kinda faded and it just doesnt capture in pictures the way it looks in person anyway.. I am going to do it again, I dye my own hair, damn i could have saved myself 6-8 years worth of college and just went to the cosmetology school back home for a semester.. lol
And thanks about the adorable thing. =D

 

I don't get that cut-and-dried agenda of marriage and reproduction, big in places like Texas but you see it elsewhere, too. It just seems like, what else might you have done if you had dared consider that there might be any other possibilities? It seems dehumanizing to me.

So you did not do your homework?! :^) I have not been terribly productive lately on my novel and artwork and was really motivated for awhile. I feel it kicking again though. Somewhat published here and there.

I get mesmerized by your eyes! :^) On that note I am still quite a bit older than you. My last girlfriend was notably younger than I and she was 23. So anyway!

 

Yeah. Cosmetology school. Husband. Offspring. Trailer. Pickup. :^) Please don't take that as condescension. I've had plenty of it around me when I was gorwing up and there's plenty of it here in Albuquerque, too.

You're welcome, sweetheart!

 

I totally hope I did not say the wrong thing. I mean there is nothing wrong with cosmetology school. If I did I'll just be gouging my eyes out. Oh God! I'm an anus!