some girls have boobs

Nahh , I cant see it.
I mean most girls I'll ever get it on with , I wouldnt dream of having kids with em.
Slim means sexually energetic/able , athletic and happy- they dont need to binge eat etc
And thick jawed women , can be very "male" ( higher testosterone etc)

Plus we choose people we're comfortable with eg I wouldnt choose a girl who was 6'4.

But then some women I find physically attractive , are complete dickheads...

 

I actually think she's right, the thing is the attraction happens not in a subconscious level, but on a very biological level. Of course it doesnt mean that in every case it's like this, but a lot of times.

 

I thought about that---

It's almost like I deemed stand-offish, attention-getters attractive. I came to the conclusion I was just seeking some kind of validation-

And ignoring the gorgeous women who were down-to-earth.

 

It's like biological and psychological factors interact.

 

My chest is in pretty well proportion to the rest of my body... I mean, if I was any bigger, I'd just look.. wrong. I'm only 5'3 and a size 3...

I used to hate my breasts. HATE them, when I was younger. Everyone else seemed to have bigger ones than me, when we were all roughly the same body size/height... Then everyone else shot up in height and I didn't.

So.. now B-cup is alright by me. :biggrin: No sag, betttch.

haaaaha.. and no pancake tits. :biggrin:

 

True.

It's just that we're all so crazy, sometimes we're attracted to people, not in a physical sense, but to people's personalities for very very weird/bad reasons.

 

Authentic - dunno , I can say very logically who I do/dont find attractive.And a classic female face is a product of low testosterone/high oestrogen.To me ,that means "female characteristics" -personality , sex etc

 

CHerea- when I think of fit women who are idiots , I remember a phrase in the bible ( about the only phrase I remember).

Its sort of :-
"And God said there will be good fruits and there will be poisonous fruits.But both will taste good.When u find the bad fruits , burn down their tree and bury it in the ground"

Now I'm not advocating burning or burying anyone , fit or ugly.But it kinda sticks in my head...

PS yes "trophy girlfriends" is sthg with lots of guys.

 

you know, you don't have to validate yourself by putting down someone else. :toetap05:

 

YES!

Thank you- You just made me understand my validation issue a bit better.

 

So, according to what you're saying. You ARE agreeing with hippychickmommy. Wouldnt being attracted to a girl who's very feminine due to low testorone/high estrogen make her a suitable partner for procreating?

 

You can't help it, it's not something that can be pinpointed, explained, it's natural, biological. You're hard wired to seek a certain type of female that is best suited to carry on your DNA whether you want to or not! Which mate is the best to mix your DNA cocktail with to produce a prime specimen that will go on and later procreate themselves, thus ensuring your genetic survival?

 

No prob.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying" I only wanna date women of x level attractivenesss".

The problem is when u're seeing a girl who looks like Snow White , but u secretly know she's the wicked witch(who'd rob every penny u had)
And uthink u can change her...Wrongly...!

Christ , what a ridiculous analogy from me.!LOL

But "good looks" doesnt equal good , just..."good looks"

 

HCM , Authentique.
Nope I absolutely *hate* kids

Its the *interaction* aspect with me...

Maybe people dont have an interest in procreating with people they consider less "genetically valuable" than themselves.I dunno.

If survival of the species was all it was about , wouldnt all guys pull girls who were 6'3 with huge biceps... YUKKKK!!! LOL
Makes u wonder tho?

 

i don't have boobs.

 

Yes, everything we do is controlled by a profoundly illusive breeding program, and no, appearance is only concerned with the exceptionally weak minded when chosing to procreate. I dont think it's survival of the species, at least beyond face value, but rather survival of consciousness itself as it evolves, and therefor, strength and size is replaced by mind and will. Or, what appears to be.

 

OK so I'm exceptionally weak minded but what other aspects of consciousness am I seeking to preserve ... before I pull out?

So attractiveness equals intelligence u mean?Well if u fancy Stephen Hawking ...

I dont follow that one...

 

No, but rather the complete opposite of what you just said.
What I mean is that the breeding program is so insane, that we as humans come up with ways to distract us from it's control without even realizing we are doing that very thing.
What I mean, is that EVERYTHING we have created, the concept of God, computers, cars, cities, etc have been done to make life desireable, in order that we will continue to see a point in living it, and therefor wanting to preserve it. Even the deepest mysteries of science, which will never be solved in our lifetime...do you follow me now?? Then you have the metaphysical approach, which implies that living away from society bring enlightenment, not having kids, families, etc.

 

It doesn't matter if you hate kids, you can't stop biological instinct babe!

I agree with you in the fact that perhaps, even though you don't WANT any children, the women that you do have a sexual interest in are technically more genetically valuable to your particular molecular makeup, thus, if conception were to occur (wanted or not) you have chosen the "best qualified" candidate to carry on your genetics. That's what I've been trying to tell you!

By survival of the species, I'm referring to seeking a woman who is well suited for childbearing, or carrying on your particular genetic line.

Now granted, these are all just little theories I have, but I find it fun to discuss the possibilites, you know?

 

I wish I had small boobs