Observe with your heart, not with your eyes. Otherwise there will always be a mental block which apparently has not yet been budged in most of you. Rage is always a product of fear in every situation. A lack of understanding is what causes anxiety, which results in distrust, fear, and rage during the boiling point. It is understanding which allows lofty, free thinkers to interact with smiling bubbly idiot. It is forgiveness that allows love to be felt as connection, rather than sense gratification. A child who acts out in class because they cant understand mathematics and throws a fit, that is rage. A man who feels pain in his heart when a stranger is abused, though he may not understand why, is in Love. Namaste friends.
Sounds to me like you have some anger issues. A professional might be able to help you more than a message board.
I'm interested in the mysogynist rage there. It's the only one that I can still kind of identify with anymore. But even that's going. When I was younger I felt the way the OP described. These days I know all anger to be displaced responsibility. I feel it. But I don't rationalize it.
I don't get along well with the "the world is all fucked up" idea. It's a linear moral presumption. Diffused anger, I think, is a temporary emotional state that is telling us: "we need to change our lives, but feel powerless to do so." We get angry at others to protect ourselves from self-repudiation. It's ok to be angry however. Feelings shouldn't be tampered with.