state sex offender list

thats creepy

 

Ya I would feel uncomfortable, but there are fine lines of how close you have to get to that person.

We had a client who was a reallly nice respectful man, wanted guardianship of his grandaughter, come to find out he had been molesting her for over a year. My co-worker was saying how innocent he was.............HELLO??? the fucker admitted it on a phone call which was recorded by the police. I am thinking the statement "dont worry about it, i didnt put it all the way in!" kind of says.........uh ya?? i was doing something wrong. he got eight years in prison.

 

Hm, I never knew but in some of the states female female or male male sex is illegal no matter what the age (for example, South Carolina)

 

Meh. He's paid his debt to society. Unless you're worried about him molesting you, Its not a big deal anymore.

Just don't recommend him to a daycare.

 

Would it bother me? Yes, of course. True he may have served his time but obviously he's not all there in the head. And just because he's served his time doesn't mean he wouldn't strike again.

A few years back, my neighborhood had a registered sex offender move in who had molested children in the past. We were let know before he moved into the neighborhood, but I don't believe he stayed here too long. It bothered me, but my kids are all quite young and always under my watchful eye outdoors. Even though we have a fenced in yard, I never, ever let them play out there by themselves. People tease me and say that I can easily keep an eye on them from my kitchen or dining room window, but I just don't feel comfortable doing that. If they're outside, so am I. You just can't be too careful when it comes to your children is how I feel.

 

He didn't hurt society he hurt a person and that ain't easy to forget.

 

Over mothering your children like that is probably worse than molestation in terms of psychological damage.

 

Ummm, okay. Do you have children? Have you SEEN what is going on out there these days? I'm supposed to let my 6 year old and barely 3 year old twins run around the neighborhood unattended and not worry or care? Do I want to bury one of my children, or see them hurt? I don't think so. If I were like that, there would be a term for it. It's called neglect, and I wouldn't be a good mother if I didn't worry about my children with the way the world is now. It's a lot different from when I was growing up, that's for sure.

It's my job as a mother to make sure my children are safe.

 

Over mothering?Hippychickmommy is right on the money.Kids can dissappear in a second--and I mean a second!You sure as hell don't want them in the hands of a monster.Much better safe than sorry.

 

And Bellfire--"men become dysfuncional between 35 and 55".Not only no--but hell no!Hahahahahahhahahaha.

 

sorta torn... in a way I want to respect ppl's privacy, so I disagree with their offenses being on such a public record... then again I wouldn't want some sex offender being around my kids or anything...

 

i was told im off topic by dilli so i wont reply the way i just did..

 

I don't feel that these lists of info should be made public...why? Because it's too easy for a group to be stirred into a mob. Pitch forks and all of that.

And if the authorities are doing their jobs, then these people won't be close enough to large groups of children to have access.

As far as I'm concerned, until they do it again, why are we punishing them by ostracising them? That's just going to lead to more problems.

 

This srt10 truck I paid off has me fucked money wise beyond beleive.

My 100 dollar debt to dilli fucks with my head everyday so im working on that.

I dont keep much company, just business and still sick over it all as well as my deal with dilli. I feel like shit so please dont make it anyworse, no one is perfect. It will be fixed in time.

I had a serious offer today from a builder, clair stone of stone developement llc to go to dallas and supervise a 27 house sub-division all paid and name my wages but I opted to stick to 4 turn key homes here in coosa.

I did some trick shit today that blew everyones mind but not mine knowing how much of a fuck up I am in other aspects of my life.

This whole building deal has become a chore and not a challenge and isnt much fun anymore.

Id rather be spliting wood and living in my van but I fucked that up.

We all have our own personal issues and I most deff know mine.

And you know we all went through some crazy times as well as good times.

And like I said im not perfect and we all have our issues and I know what I got to do to make things right, but if ya want to keep rippin me a new ass go ahead but never forget if the serious shit ever really hit the fan and you needed somthing id be the first to step up cause ive nothing to loose.

 

the challenge is the game.. there is no game here anymore..

id say ya should reinvent yerself elswhere..

its when yer at yer best,..

convincing folks yer something that is only 50% correct..

probably somewhat like the "registered sex offender" you refer to..

 

an ya know what i meen nigga joe..

no malice intended in the metaphor..

 

I was being facetious. But I still think 99% of children today are over-supervised.

At your oldest child's age I used to play street hockey for hours at a time with friends with no parents around whatsoever.

 

Also, because of leading questioning etc. a possibly significant number of child molestors are actually innocent.

 

way i see it nj is ya work for him,, you dont have children around him nor are children generally around any where you are with him,,, its work nothing more,,, i personally wouldnt be skeered of him or nothing just chillin n yappin my trap at his place although i cant say how i would feel sittin next to him either,,, i am generally a good sniffer outter of icky people they make me crawl outta my skin,,, those i just deal with as lil as i can n still look at it as work n wouldnt be round him at any other time,,,

 

He is a child lol.