still virgin

The reason why I don't see it as a problem is because my respect for women is not biased in favor of virgins over non-virgins. If a girl decides to wait until marriage, then good for both of them. To give one's virginity as a gift is definitely something to be appreciated. BUT IT ISN'T EVERYTHING.

My fiance is not a virgin, and she wasn't a virgin when we met. But guess what? It doesn't matter to me! We've both accepted that in the past we each had other partners, both romantically and sexually. Would it have been nice if she had waited until she fell in love with me? Yes. Does this mean I would have loved her more than I do now? NO. When I love a woman, I love her for her, not for her hymen or lack of one.

 

i dont see how this is a problem. when ur w/ a guy r u going to ask him & if he perfers none Vs go out take care of it & come back?

seems every girl wants something else in this situation the Vs think theyre missing out while the none Vs sometimes wish to still be 1. so its all u doll

 

There is absoluately nothing to be a shamed of about being 19 years old and a virgin. You should do it when you're ready and speaking from personal exprince I wish I had waited like you have good for you!

 

U shouldnt worry about what anyone else thinks! IF you are pure, then all the better for the 1st person to "pluck your cherry". U should maybe use your virginity as a marketing tool....I didn't lose mine until I was 21, and I was a teenager in the 80's.