Strange situation

No you shouldn't.

 

I wasn't curious at all, but cpl year back ( I was 15)
Went to Florida on holiday, with family. My friend came with us. Anyway got there
Having a great time, couldn't get a drink anywhere ( damn you yanks and your daft laws lol)
So after a few days me Abd my mate got talking to this American lad. Told him our prob about getting drink, he was like yea I'll get you some beers and a bottle. Gave him the money and extra £ 20 for the favour.

Me and mate got plastered lol staggered back to hotel and crashed out.
Now in my drunken stupor I sensed that I was being touched , but being drunk I didn't
Really come to. But a bit later I woke up kinda.
It was dark but I felt someone sucking on my cock.
Could make out it was my mate blowing me.
Tbh I was in shock lol didn't know what to do!
So just lay there, eyes shut I couldn't help but moan which made him suck me more vigoursly. Blew my jizz. I got off bed went for a shower never spoke a word
To him. Even for the next few days we didn't make eye contact, tbh it kinda spoiled the holiday a bit . Was pissed off at him and myself. Made me doubt myself which up until then , I never even considered that shit!
Kept thinking maybe I'm a poof. I should kicked the shit out of him, instead of lying back and doing nothing. Got back to the uk and we didn't see each other again.
So that's my expierence with gay stuff.

 

you're a crappy friend.

 

I'm a crappy friend lol
And doing what he did was being a good friend.
You have a weird Way of looking at things mate?
Or do you condone taking liberties?

 

no. i do agree with you that what he did was out of line. a bit of a stupid stunt to pull on his part.

but you let him do it, just as much as he did. you were sober enough to register shock about what was going on; you could've pushed him away, told him to back off. but you went with the situation and now you come mouthing off about how you should've beaten 'the shit' out of your friend.

what he did was wrong, but the fact that it went as far as it did is just as much on you as it is on him. you failing to take responsibility for that and blaming it all on your buddy is what makes you a crappy friend.

 

I didnt do anything cause I was in shock , I didnt even open my eyes at the time.
Yes I did make him aware i knew what occurred.
The fact I was frosty with him, during the holiday
Should have made him get the message , that i Wasnt happy with it.
Whether or not I should have stopped him, is neither here not there.
He was the crappy friend. Known him since we were kids.

 

Bought this for my wife. Amazing. Best multiple orgasms she's had.

 

You got sucked of by a guy , and climaxed.
Now you are on a gay/Bi site complaining about it?

No, your freind should not have taken the liberty of sucking your cock while you were drunk, and asleep. But you did allow him to continue.

It's not right but you allowed it continue till you blew.

I know if I'm drunk it's gonna take a bit to get me to blow. If I was in shock, or not liking the person or situation I might even go limp while it's happening.

Pretty sure just pushing him away was possible, even in shock I think I would have given him a shove and stopped it quick.

Now you say you shoulda beat the shit out of him

I haven't been with a guy but it could be a new experience if it was mutual. Just sex.

If I let a guy suck my cock I'm gonna have to be onboard to get hard so of I'm not into him in some way I'm probably just gonna be nrvois and not cum to the party. So to speak.

Look your mate up, explain the situation and say you were shocked. You never know you might become more relaxed about your sexuality and let him blow you again.

 

Sounds like there might be Cock in his future, don't worry about it. Do it try it, get over it or go on with it.
If you are single and can do as you please it's just trying stuff out. You can be who you want.

As a straightarried man I can honestly say that relaxing and trying to entertain yourself with a dildo or vibrator is difficult. The relaxing part that is. Use lube you will get the other bit.

If you have a chick happy to use a strap on on you you get to relax , let her do the thing.

Maybe see if a prostitute will sort you out with a pegging or at least a Dildo. You relax while getting tampered with.

Try find a guy, if it works out ok great, if not remember you wanted to try it don't hold it against him if you feel bad later. It's just sex, you don't have to be branded for it. If you are gay you will be what you will be if you want to.

I am attracted to women, I like many of them but married and curious. I would maybe stray, that's my business. We work as a couple but I have different desires.

A nice girl here says, sex toys suck just let a guy fuck you" that's what you want. It's not a crime. You can take it up the ass if you like, you can like it if you like..

Some girls will take it up the ass. Many won't , I think it's the stigma and " won't it hurt?" And it's dirty.

If a male and female engage in anal it's ok, if a chick takes it up the ass he is a luck man, if she wants to return the favour or intimate anal play on him it's as til a guy and a girl fucking. No-one else business.

I speak openly here but I don't talk to freinds about our sex life or tell people I like my ass played with or that occassionally I've fucked my wife in the ass. Keeps things interesting.

No harm on trying if no-one gets hurt.

Some girls are into anal, many not. Some think it's hot to watch a guy get fucked. Why not, I like lesbian sex on porn.

Maybe The Samantha will tell us more, maybe not but she might have a woman's perspective on all this.

 

I knew I was at the least bicurious at age 15. I lost my virginity that year to a girl, but I would go home and play with my ass with a dildo I made.

Jump ahead to age 38. I met a couple online looking for a guy to join them. I didnt know he wanted to fuck a guy, and he surprised me while I was fucking his wife. He gave me a rim job. Before I knew it, he was sticking his dick up my ass. I loved it. When he came, I did too. I went back for a second round a few days later. I gave him head until he came. It was amazing feeling him fill my mouth with cum. I swallowed with no remorse. After a short break, he fucked me. I came without anything touching my dick. I knew right then, this was something amazing to experience. I lost track of that couple, and my bisexual side was put on hold again.

Jump ahead to age 47. I got married to a woman. I love her to the ends of the earth, but still wanted to play with a real dick. I told her about my fantasy. She set us up with several men. She loves to watch me getting fucked. She also loves to fuck me with her strapon.

We are now both 50, and love to share with a guy. We share giving blowjobs, we share getting fucked by the guys we find. I watch her get fucked, then I get fucked by the same dick. It is awesome!

Nothing wrong with this lifestyle. It is so amazing to see the woman I love sucking a dick, then guiding it up my ass. She gets off seeing me get it, to the point of her becoming literally dripping wet. I am a very lucky man to have such a woman. I also think that many women think this way, they just never get the chance to express it.

Do not be afraid to follow through with your desires. If you suppress these feelings, you will never be content in life....simple as that. Also, just because you like the feel of a dick in your ass, does not mean you are gay. I find no man attractive. I just want their dick LOL.

By the way, knowing what it feels like to get fucked, makes a man so much better, when it comes to pleasing a woman. I know how it feels, and I know how to make her feel great because of it.