I think most women have a secret stripper fantasy, in one form or another, because we like to attract male attention and we like to be the object of male desire. We don't want to be limited to that, but our sexuality is part of what makes us what we are. And of course men do the same thing, in their own way. I've always believed that if you got it, flaunt it. What's wrong with that? You could even make a case for saying that we're all "strippers", the difference is in how much we take off or how much we show. At my age, I work hard to keep my body looking good, and I quite enjoy showing it off. I would never myself get up on a stage and strip naked for money, but oh, I definitely flaunt. My ex-husband used to have his friends over to watch football on weekends, and believe me I was quite aware that I was "on display" for them, so to speak. So I dressed for it. I'm not saying I did a pole dance for them at halftime, but when I went in to replenish the beer and snacks, I made sure they got an eyeful. It was fun for me and they enjoyed it (my husband liked it, too), so no harm, no foul. They never knew it, but I had fantasies about doing an exotic dance for them, including stripping. I can just see the astonishment on their faces, as I lowered the lights, turned off the game, and starting slithering around the room, shedding clothes as I went. Ha! That would have been such good fun.
i'd like to give amateur night a go once or twice.......... but with a costume, routine etc.... think a random sporadic burlesque act in a traditional strip club, throwing everyone off and making everyone go WTF????????
Not everyone wants it. In my eyes its not a bad thing, but I still don't want it. I don't care much about amusing men and being eye candy.
i perfectly know what you mean. Its about personal choice. Some women do it because they want to please themselves by pleasing man and by doing so feel desirable. other do it just because they know they are hot and it makes them feel hotter. other just do it for the sport of it personally i would not have my problem doing this, but i can`t imagine it being my profession or something that i do regularly. but i myself like watching nice women dancing and being all seductive and shit but i am that lesbian so its ok
Well, I don't mean to imply that it's the primary focus of my life. It's just fun, and you could also say that there's a biological imperative in wanting to appeal to the sexual desire of the opposite sex. It also doesn't mean that we define ourselves strictly in terms of how we're perceived by men. It's just enjoyable to me to attract the attention of men when I want to. That's all.
I would have done it when I was younger, if there had been a strip club in a good location for me. At least, I would have tried it for a while. I know I would have enjoyed the stage dance part of it. The lap dances with random customers, some with questionable manners and hygene, that is the part that would have probably ended my stripping career in its early stages. If a girl likes the idea of stripping and does not feel that anyone (especially herself) is being harmed in any way by it, there is no reason not to give it a shot, if she is physically attractive. If you try it and like it, it is really nothing more than a professional transaction between two consenting adults. There are worse things to do for a living. My only similar option was to pose naked for college art classes for a few semesters. I didn't make much money, but I can tell you from personal experience that there is nothing more empowering than learning to be comfortable with being the only naked person in a brightly-lit room full of strangers. Once you get adjusted to it, you feel like you can handle any situation with ease. It did wonders for my self-confidence! I have heard and read many things over the years about women wishing that men would drop their emphasis on physical appearance and overcome their predisposition towards promiscuity. It isn't going to happen, so I decided to work at being more open to the reality of how men really are, and trying to make the best of it. I think this has brought me more happiness than any other approach I could have taken.
I don't see anything wrong with it... I like to go. Sometimes I get a little jealous if the girl seems TOO interrested in the guy I'm with though
I've had some experience with this world It can be a great experience It can also be very dark and disturbing It really depends on the mental/emotional health of the individual involved
I agree that it can vary between great and dark/disturbing for the stripper. Having gone to nude or topless beaches for many years and saunas etc, I still wonder why there is still so many men who go to view them. Seems a waste of money to me.
Well, they don't all have topless beaches and co-ed saunas around them - but I don't either, and I still don't see why they go =P
I don't have much of an opinion. I wish certain women didn't have to do that to make their money but unfortunately, sometimes, there is just no other option.
