what about when someone can see what you're doing (such as dishes, cleaning, reading a book, etc) and they still ask, "so what are you doing?" also when you dye your hair or cut it and your friends see you, they still ask, 'did you dye your hair?" "did you dye your hair?" i mean do you have to ask cuz, if yesterday my hair was long and blonde and then today its short and red.....hmm, must be a big clue huh