Sucked an old bf's dick, should I tell my husband?

You're right. Maybe just verbalizing it was important. Thanks. And there will never be another time.

 

having a sounding board is always a nice option. :mickey:

 

Bull****

 

Why would you say that? What I did was awful. I won't ever let it happen.

 

^^ I think thats what you meant to say.

 

you sucked an old butt fucker's dick?

 

yes, I completely regret it.

 

sorry sarah, couldn't help it

seriously, one thing that you have to think about is whether you could have an oral std. There is some risk in unprotected oral sex. Could be a problem for both you and your husband.

 

so should I get tested? and what for, herpes? or other stuff........now I'm sick.

 

I don't know the full low-down on the std's, but what I understand is that it is certainly in principle possible that you could have aquired an std, and you could pass it on to your husband during sex.

So I guess you could look it up, or just make an appointment with a doctor. If you did acquire an infection, I'm not sure how long it takes for it to show up on tests.

 

I think it's unlikely that you acquired an infection. It's just that it's possible and a good idea for you to get tested.

 

Yes, good idea. I never thought about it.

 

Yes, you should probably get tested and if you think your ex might be high risk, you should try to avoid mouth contact with your husband until you do.

If you live in or near a major metropolitan area there should be a free clinic nearby to get tested at. And if you have the money, do donate. If you don't have a clinic near you, a MedExpress or any doctor should be able to help you out.



Just curious: why do you think you did this?

 

yes you should, you dirty cheating whore

 

Why I did it? Was caught up by nostalgia for past times, loved my ex bf's attention and flattery, wanted to feel like I could attract a guy, too much too drink, stupid, all of the above, no good excuses.

 

wait a minute, she did something wrong. I think she acknowledges that. There's no need to kick her while she's down.

Everybody fucks up in life somehow. This was hers.

So the question now is how to move forward.

 

I didnt read it. I'm sorry OP. I'm a bit emotional about women these days.

Tell him though. And then leave him. Because nothing will ever be the same again.

 

thanks e7m8, I needed that

 

:sunny:

 

did you come home and suck your husbands dick proper?..