I'm another guy who discovered (when my then-girlfriend just went and started licking them) that I LOVE to have my ears licked! Advice? Just lick gently and flowingly. Use your tongue to essentially "massage" his earlobe. You can suck the dangly part (unless he has "attached earlobes"). But for me, the best part was when she would kind of just form her soft tongue into the ripples inside my earlobe. Just kinda flood the crevices with her tongue and let it flow around and lick a little. OMG it's sooooo intense for me! I swear it must be as sensitive as you girls' clits are! It gets better, the farther into my ear canal she sticks her tongue, too. I kinda like the way it makes its own deep, loudish sound right there in my ear. It sounds squishy and really erotic. I developed my own penchant for licking girls' ears after that. -Jeffrey
Way to be hung-up, dude. I'm kinda proud of (or at least, very happy with) the fact that very little, if anything, that can be done sexually/erotically doesn't turn me on. I can enjoy all kinds of erotic play... I love being versatile. It's hard for me to encounter a girl whose interests can't be accommodated. -Jeffrey
id never really thought about it that much.. but when i think about it, ears are increidbly sensitive, i loved it when my mum would affectionately play with my hair and ears when i was young, but id never really thought of it as a sexual possibility
It's one of the things that turns me on most. Just nibble on his ear lobe a bit, kind of french kiss it, minus a bit of tounge, just do what you think he'll like. Or ask him?