Taking someone back...or just let them go

Yay for sending the mean note. I can't count how many times I wrote one and didn't send it and then later on wondered why the other person didn't have a clue as to what I was thinking....

 

let her go

she obviously doesnt take this as serious as you

 

Its been a week and things look good. Only contact I made was a message asking if she planned on giving me my stuff back since she decided to get hers and shes gonna drop it off. At times im an emotional wreck but at times im suprised how much a week without talking to someone can do. I feel like I haven't talked to her in a month. I'm looking forward to hopefully moving on to someone new in a few weeks. Haha and I can't wait for that call I get in a few weeks from her when I don't pick up

 

I'm routing for you man. Good luck.

 

I have to say, in my experience, once is all the chance anyone person gets. It never is the same and has very little chance of working. move on. it is the best advice I never took, but should have

 

I always tend to give people two chances and then whap myself in the head when they go and blow the second one.

 

Haha got that call today I wasn't home just my mom going...some girl called here crying for you. I'll probably call and get my stuff back.

 

Some things are deal breakers the first time around for most people .... and those things are different for all of us.

For me lying is a deal breaker, while infidelity could be given a second chance.

 

yeah once the trust is gone, there is no going back.
Once your heart is broken by mis trust, you know it's time to move on. Somethings don't deserve a second chance