tell my girlfriend?

I'm actually not sure how she reacted, i told most of these stories though text/msn/facebook, those kinda things, we don't normally talk about that stuff when together in person so i'm not sure, she wasn't upset or anything, but i'm sure she cared a bit, but i made it seem as if i wasn't smoking at all, so thats probably why she didn't care...

i think i'll bring it up in a conversation later on today whenever she gets home from school (i miss a lot of school :/ aha) via text or something, and then just tell her, probably..

 

if you feel like you should tell her, then do it man :2thumbsup:
no pressure

 

it doesn't seem like you were actually hiding it so i mean i would tell her if it comes up but like i don't feel its important enough to have to bring up out of the blue and confess, she may have a different opinion though.

 

ohshit, i just told her, i regret that now hahahaha... i just texted her now... shit, out of all the times i could have told her, why did i have to tell her now.. while i'm baked.. i dont even remember what i said *facepalm*

 

at least you got it over with.

 

a man dont worry whats the worst that can happen?

youd rather have her to find out by herself and get all mad ''why you didnt tell me before nag nag nag''?

 

what happened?

 

dude, check your sent messages haha

 

well that didn't turn out so good...

so, i told her yesterday, as i was extremely baked and ate those firecrackers i was talking about in a different post, so i had no clue what i was saying pretty much, but all i know now is that she is pretty "disappointed" which is so much worse than her being mad...

i told her and thought she wouldn't take it so badly, but she flipped shit! she started saying all these things like "why would you do this? i didn't expect this from you" and she said how she thought i was innocent (how does smoking weed make me not innocent?) and then she was saying how she couldn't stop crying all day, and she kept saying stuff like "i thought you were different" and i was just sitting there baked like "oh shit... why again did i want to tell her? :sifone: "

then i woke up this morning to a huge text from her saying how she couldn't sleep because she kept having dreams about me smoking and was up all night crying... *facepalm* I seriously didn't think it would be this big of a deal...

she's definitely been brainwashed into thinking weed is some huge horrible thing... i kept telling her its not that bad, and she kept saying stuff like "your obviously just saying that because you smoke it" even after i showed her the facts... i made the mistake of saying its no big deal, because apparently it is... lol

 

ooo...sorry to hear that.
My parents gave me a really bad view of weed. I was against it for a long time growing up. My dad used to say it was the reason my uncle was such a low life, which I now know isn't true. He is a low life because that's just the person he is and plus he does many other drugs as well.
I met someone when I was 16 who I completely respected and found out they smoked weed....I was disappointed at first but it wasnt long before he was filling his bong and I was taking the hit.
Give her some time....maybe she will come around. If you are worth it enough to her.

 

yeah i think over time she won't really care anymore, its just the initial shock i'm sure, i don't think she'll ever smoke it though, unfortinutly

 

shit man thats what i call antidrugs!

but look at the bright side man, at least she didnt find out by herself!

looking by the way she acted when you told her, i cant fuckin imagine if she found out by herself!

as you yourself told her, she might just be ok with it over time, maybe she opens her mind and you both may end up good...

...but fuck if she had found it out by herself, there would be no way out of this shit man! she would be completely mad and you'd also be both a drug addict (thats how most antidrug people see us all... we're all addicted uncontrollable losers to them... ) and a liar!

 

honestly, i know this is terrible of me to say, but if someone was heavily anti-weed, then i would probably never be with them. if someone agrees with all that propaganda bullshit, they do not have an open mind and an understanding heart, and i am no longer interested.

weed is no big deal. i wish people would just understand that...

 

well now she's saying she doesn't trust me, and that she thinks i'm hiding more stuff from her now?! The whole reason i told her this was so that i WOULDN'T be hiding anything, so that she could trust me moore, yet now shes saying she trusts me LESS? hahahaa *facepalm* females... (no offence)

 

that's how it goes dude.. i'd just cut your losses and kick the girl to the curb

 

yep. tell her she needs to straighten her priorities a bit. and sorry, but i have a feeling that this girl is not the one for you.

you should get her high. maybe that would help! ask her if she'd like to try, just once, so she's not knocking something she doesn't know the truth about.

 

man i wouldnt be with a chick who judged me for that
just sayin but who knowes maybe shit will work out for you two.. hopefully

 

or just tell her you'll quit and lie to her

it wouldnt last anyways

 

hahahah ...really...

...thats total close mindedness... now you smoke weed, so you are not trustworthy... ah :sigh:

if she at least gave it a try just so she knew WHAT she was refusing....

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well just do what you feel like now man ... if you feel like keepin her, do it, but if you feel like keepin mary jane, ditch that bitch hahah

 

LOL agreed!