well, yeah. he'll find a woman worth having instead of spending too much time calculating how to deal with the ones he shouldn't touch with a 10' pole. that's GOOD.
Right. I understand. But he can still get rid of the seriousness. Anyway, I think we all know where we stand on the issue. No need to re-hatch it.
Seriously, I'm using that next time! That's a killer for last minute resistance. I've actually used, I have an early morning tomorrow so I'm gonna have to kick you out a little early tonight. We had great sex that night!
The calculated approaches on how to deal with a woman -'cause we are all the same automatons - is kinda sickening actually. ..I guess ,if it works for you to go at dealing with other people detached from the actual situation with planned out moves, then enjoy -but I find its much more enjoyable to act in the moment, and treat people as the individual they are.(good or bad- the best insults work that way too) ..and much more enjoyable to be with real people- not lame moves ,coated in bad catch phrases, and filled with planned reactions. I think the best dates(dunno if I can pick a BEST) I have went on were the ones that just sorta happened me & him (and my now hubby) with no real plans- just up and going out somewere simple , being our goofy selfs , and talking for hours.
well, i think the moves are natural social interactions. most of what they're talking about i've always done, survival mode and all that. it works. what i don't want is someone a cool as fitz changing a single thing.
Well, how I see it, if the woman isn't enjoying herself she can always leave right? I make it a point to make the interaction as enjoyable as possible. If she doesn't like it we'll part ways.
Some are.. some aren't. It isn't soo much the "moves" that bother me - its the thought planning a situation out and trying to conquer every situation (or woman) with the same set of moves, takes a lot of of fun and individuality out of a situation.
Well the best date was today. We went shopping, I bought new shoes...and then we went to this bosnian restaurant, had a great conversation. She is rich, so she paid for lunch, of course.
Best date I went on? With a promotion girl from down South. She was fit , thin and thick.Just the way I like em : ) 19:45 pm , as soon as we'd sat down she was talkin all this boring shite about her "previous relationships" , "emotional needs" , "rebound" bollocks and I was thinking "fuck can I bribe the barman to ring time early". Anyway she went on an told me that she "hated dating" she what really hated was "lack of honesty in relationships". So , I said yeah "I hate dating too , I just like screwing.This wine tastes corked , lets go back to mine and fuck". 19:56 pm - result : ) Ressotaspiks- shallow and proud.: )
i've always believed that all it would take to stop people from taking that approach is if women stopped having sex with every asshole that tries it...