Whether it comes from having to protect themselves when they are teens, or whether they are just hyper and thats what they get into,.........or sometimes take up such a class cos there is a really hot guy there , stuff like taking up martial arts does seem more common with gay guys than the general population. Which tends to lead onto gym work, body builder, certain sports. So it might all start as a teen wanting to better defend ones self, but a decade or two later spawns into a whole lot of things. So no matter how much of a girly powderpuff they were at 16, a decade or two later a lot of them look pretty scary, I've seen that a lot. So when it comes to the bible thumpers, not that there really are many of them, its one thing if they are picking on vulnerable teens, pretty shitty. But its kind of a whole different thing 20 years later. And they are just talking in a round about way, so one like this Lisa000, I assess her first as a chic saying stuff like that before a bible thumper, a chic accusing us of daddy issues, what a laugh. Older sisters of gay guys usually overcompensate the most. That would be my first bet, older sister still feeling guilty that maybe being too clingy, or too many curious under bed cover investigations turned the younger brother. Second bet would be realised too late hubby was both ways, or daddys a little too comforatble with guys Third bet I wont say out loud its mean ( A gas fireplace is different to a wood fuelled in that it never gets poked ) But very likely nothing to do with religion its a faux argument anyway