The experience of losing virginity compared to what I thought!

You know as well as me! I've been inside her while I had the erection. But I didn't cum.

 

What about your asshole? Do you wax there? Or do hairs grow there?

 

No, I don’t “need” to wax there. I’m not into anal, giving or receiving, just not my thing.

 

That wasn't what I was getting at. You'd still need to wax there even if you didn't grow hairs in that area. I mean for the sake of sex in the doggy position and so on.

Nice to know you don't grow any hairs around your ass.

 

Okay, gotcha.

plural? Lol

Like, putting my mouth there? Or letting a guy put his mouth there? Nooooo. To each their own, but just not something I want to do or have done to me.

 

Don’t be fooled. All women that have body hair have some hair that grows around the butthole lol
We shave it, wax it or laser it!

 

Everyone is probably different but waxing is usually once a month, shaving would be about once a week and laser Idk, every 2 months till it doesn’t come back.

 

Probably. It’s not something women like to talk about or admit.

 

I have no reason to lie lol I’m happily married and just sharing my experiences.

 

you may ask once.

 

No offense, OP... but your post demonstrates pretty much why the porn epidemic needs to be addressed.
I can't believe that this was the reaction you had for your first time.

I mean, if you had problems because you were nervous about it, then that's perfectly acceptable... but the idea that you couldn't get it up because your partner was too real for you is just depressing.

Also, I know some people get off on casual sex and one night stands and such, but the trick to making sex good is to let the anticipation build in a situation where you keep finding new things about the person that you like. The whole 'I need to get fucking laid... preferably with someone hot' attitude really isn't the way to go.

 

Well, it'll never be addressed, but you'll hear things about it on the news every now and then. I mean, what can really be done about it? As a guy, I typically jerk off 3 times per week. And if you're sexually starved, and after a stressful week, it's hard to not watch porn at least some of the time you jerk off. It's free and has no impact what so ever on your health.

Ah, but there's a challenge to get a girl home that you've just met.

The reality is that I find it easier to get with strangers, than girls I know. I've rarely made out with someone I've previously known, not that I don't try. I've gotten one stranger home before this time, but I didn't have a condom, so I remained a virgin.

 

I don’t need to wax there means I don’t have hair there to wax. Didn’t realize this was such an odd thing.

 

What is our hang up with hair these days?

Like, if it ain't on your head, you're not supposed to have it. Even men are expected to be hairless now.

Anyway, I agree with the consensus that porn has affected the OP. Maybe it's because I was sexually active before free internet porn everywhere was a thing, maybe it's because I'm a lesbian--and 90% of lesbian porn is made for and by straight men--but porn doesn't really do anything for me. I've seen episodes of Xena that got me hotter than any porn.

But, at the end of the day, sex is a wonderful and beautiful thing, and I'd rather be with a real woman with a hairy vag than watch a fake one on a screen with a bald one.

But that's just me.

 

well if it's negatively affecting your sex life, i would consider that an impact on your health.

yeah, it is hard not to watch porn, but if you have to take a break for the sake of being able to have actual sex, i think it's worth doing so.

yep. this is the most frustrating thing about dating/sex/women to me. i really have no interest in women i don't know, unless they happen to be absolutely physically perfect. which is obviously rare, and even then i'm only kind of interested. i never actually want to try to do anything with 99.9% of women until i've gotten to know them pretty well. but, women are the exact opposite and in most cases have no interest in anyone that isn't a complete stranger. it makes it really hard to ever actually get anywhere with anyone.

 

He won't be coming back after that!

 

i think the idea of virginity being something to loose, bothers my sense of logic.
like it was some sort of priceless prized possession or something.
like not yet having had sex was itself some kind of a thing.

well as you might guess, for me, that was a long time ago,
and wanting to 'loose' it, was a big thing until i did.

but all that is a cultural thing,
which simply means; begins and ends with how people think about it.

 

Yes my wife on several occasions offered her pussy to my face and as you said it may be a little suffocating if you don't position yourself correctly. But it is real turn on and lovely experience to be so close to her beautiful pussy and enjoy soft aroma and warmth.

 

Unless this was the first time he expressed his thoughts: yes, extremely unlikely Or people just never could be bothered to give him a constructive reply. Communication and all..

Yeah, lets face it. Asking questions to seemingly attractive women on the internet about this is the closest he will get to actually getting the kind of sexual attention he craves from them

 

i only see two problems with 'porn'. one is when it crowds out everything else.
and the other is that sex, however much of it it might take, ultimately results in pregnancy,
and the problem with that, is that there are too damd many humans already.

of course i understand there are also conflicts of cultural perceptions.
(even those are at least partially, however unconsciously, a result of there being too damd many of us)