Mui, you are looking at this in entirely the wrong light...It's not about birthday cards..That is how it will start...but what I am hoping for is for everyone to attach to one another...to become close, like friends....really close friends...so that even when the world is giving you lots of shit, you have people to turn to...people who know you well...and don't judge..
And about those birthday cards, I sure hope Holly is making a calender or is going to warn us or something. I'm not even sure how many of us there are anymore. I'm so bad about checking the Hip Forums calender for birthdays.