So I suppose we can all agree that both certainly don't hurt a relationship, it's just some put more of an emphasis on one more than the other. And how is stating my opinion lofty? I never said you were wrong, never acted condescending in any way...yet somehow you label me as lofty?
no, but I treat myself, dating sucks man! When I spark with someone, thatll be fab. But until then.... sexy time for me 100%