The Island Of Misfit Chatters

Noxious, I hate so much hearing about Buddy's problems.

I'm sending good vibes your way, hoping you find the financial assistance y'all need.

 

thanks, sorry to read about your uncle, but sadly for us older farts that crap happens all too often now, don't it?

 

well I sent in request to few organizations, now it's just waiting to hear back.

My real fear is that it is cancerous, don't think the wife will handle it very well if it is, nor will I.
I've really gotten attached to that stinker

 

I have no idea how to do it; but I've heard people talk about starting GoFundMe (or something like that) pages on facebook. For something like this, I'd try anything.

 

least its not super close to xmas but still..

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GikGnKuehms

 

It's easy to set up but then you have to spam the link everywhere to get the word out on donations.

 

A one night stand is about sex but an affair is often about far more involved issues. If those issues which cause someone to look at greener pastures (which do not exist) are not resolved then I do not think it is possible to fix. I do not think that someone is doomed to repeat behaviours but without doing a lot of work on the old relationship it is probably more likely to happen again.

My divorce lawyer had a needlepoint on his wall that said "It is better to be single than to wish you were".

I am so sorry to hear this and I know buddy is being cared for. You might want to try looking into veterinarian colleges as often they have programs that benefit the student wit the experience they need and also which allows them to do surgeries at little or no cost to owners. They are supervised by actual veterinarians so it is not as if some hack is doing it. Might be worth a few calls as there seem to be a lot in your state. I know the one we have here in Guelph is reputed to be top notch for this.

Big hugs to buddy and both of you as well.

 

Sorry you all are going through this. Best wishes for Buddy's outcome.

 

Lynn is the best.

 

With the cheating thing. I don't know. I think it would depend on the mindset of the cheater. Like, of course guys sometimes go out to brother before wedding like on bucks nights, they can play up there and I've been around guys that have and I think, if they like it and they get away with it then they might get the mentality that it's hurting no one etc. and it's fine. But if they're guilty about it then they might not do it again. But! I've never met a guy that said they felt guilty. =\

And also, I know cheating women too lol. And I've never heard any of them speak of guilts either. I think I'd be guilty. I'd feel terrible. Every desire I have I make sure my partner knows. And I'm fully aware she will just let me go ahead with it anyway, but I need her to know and I need her to participate with me, together. yeah, it'd be totally awkward if I ever tried to cheat.

 

The ex cheated.. got caught. I let her come back. 5 years later she was back with the same dude. Boom! Done with that shit! I filed and made the dude pay for it all.

 

Did you send her ass home with a footprint on her face???

 

I remember one night when my little family of 4 had it bad. One of us vomited every 15 minutes. I hope you don't get it.

Apply for Care Credit. Vets take it. www.carecredit.com

Good Luck!

or

Start a You Caring Fund www.youcaring.com or Go Fund Me account for him www.gofundme.com

 

I have few band mates that do the fund me thing and they make quite a bit of money from it hehe. Every little bit adds up. Last time around they did a thing where they needed money to record an album, so every person that donated got the album for free. 20+ got a shirt, 50+ was mentioned in the album cover etc. it was a really cool way for them to do it and they made so much money they put a lot of emphasis into the album cover and packaging etc.

 

Aww.. Noxious.. so sad to hear about Buddy. He's a great looking fellow. I hope it's something easily corrected.

It's totally NOT fair that our pups don't have longer life-spans. They love us unconditionally. They provide joy and laughter. They chew up old shoes for us and remind us to toss them. My cats live in the barn and are feral but my pups are family and have the run of the house.

 

Gah.. I'm going to have to bite it and learn how to use a different browser so I can quote you guys. Someone suggested Firefox, right?

Computers.. the bane of my existence.

Ya'll have been a huge help today. Thanks! Your case of scotch will be in the mail.

 

We should have a new dog by mid next year I hope. It'll be a female German Shepherd and I'll call her Irminsul, or Valkyrie. I just need out boy right now to mature a little more but he's doing well. I can just see him getting totally jealous of a new dog, he's extremely social and craves social activity with other dogs. He's got so much enthusiasm and drive he doesn't stop. He only stops to chuck us a sad look because we are ignoring him. Chases bugs all day long, every time we come outside he gets so excited and brings us his rope. I used this rope day one that we got him so it's his favorite toy. Brings it to us every time! It actually pisses you off after a while it's like go away! Ugh you're a pain in the ass with this rope, this slobbery fucking yuck sometimes. And he's all munch munch munch munch. But we fear that he'll get very jealous with a little puppy around.

 

Use google chrome!

 

firefox is ok, probably what I use the most of..