Um, I've done that with random hookups, so I'm not sure what your point is here! Minus the "weeks' part of it, of course. Why do you presume to believe that, because you think this way, everyone else must as well, or otherwise they're the ones with the problem? Having an opinion is not a problem - you're entitled to that. What you're not entitled to do is judge others' behavior based on your own opinions of how A, B, or C ought to be. That's called be an asshole.
A serious response now... Your opinions are sacrosanct. Your right to deprecate others is not. Magical to you. Perhaps what is magical to others is a random hookup 14 times a week. So what? They aren't trying to fuck you. To you. And good luck to you. I knew a woman who liked to fuck guys and never even learn their name. Good luck to her (though I never fucked her....and she was HOT). But people are wired differently. Don't assume everyone has to have the same values as you do. To many people, it does. To many, it does not. Why must your way be the best way, or the only way? We aren't clones. Nor are we ants.
that's why it was a question not a statement. I can't understand why one would chose the hookups/ swinging/ one night stand route. I literally can't figure out why a person could think like that. it seems bizarre.
Guys: unfortunately, I cannot edit the OP. But I'd like to know, for those of you who answered the questionnaire, if you are religious. kthxbai.
Just joined today, and have been looking around, enjoying the openness in these forums...but to get things back on track with this thread i'll share. I dont know if I'm really at 100, but i'd say between 70-120 as a guesstimate. How many partners have you been with? 70-120 Is it an estimate or did you keep track? Estimate If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? 40something, then kept round #'s Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? Don't regret it. Kind of bothers me when women i've been with have regretted being with me, or regretting things she's agreed to do. Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? Yes, but only the "when will I settle down part" but I still enjoy being single and going out and meeting new people, im cool How have you met most of your partners? Met? like before having sex with them? 50% What is your sexual orientation? Straight Male. How old are you? 33 Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? Not sure about "into" but I do enjoy group sex, and have participated in a gangbang or two, didn't really enjoy it Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? With someone I call my gf, but more of a fuckbuddy that I hang out with. If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? Maybe at weddings Do you have children? No Are you low, middle, or upper income? Mid-Upper -100-120k/yr. What are you politically? GOP What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? STD Panel test every 2-3 mths, ensure partner is on BC, pull out method Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? No What was the best sex you've ever had? 4 or 5 way tie, all have been group experiences How was the worst sex you've ever had? First few times maybe? Driver seat of car one time? Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? MostDef Do you prefer less experienced people or more? Less What do you look for in a partner? Openness, Adventurous What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? Group, Anal, Advanced Positions How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? Not in everyday life, but confidence in bed, yes When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. Dont think that I am really, but it seems that I am in a different stage of life since they started getting married, having kids...etc. How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? Not as important as work, family, monetary success, but i'd rather spend time finding a good sex partner than settling for a bad one. Would you die if you had to be monogamous? No. What`s your favorite sex act? HMM..lots of good ones, I'd say after long great anal sex, giving a good anal creampie, then laying there and beinz lazy after. haha. Are you sexy as fuck? Haha. hmm.
Would you mind sharing whether or not you're religious? I'd like to know whether there is a relationship between religion and sexual openness.
Haha, I really have been enjoying your responses in these threads, so I dont want to ruffle your feathers, but I am very socially liberal, and very fiscally conservative. I tend to care more about my pocketbook than social issues. If i cared more about social issues i'd def vote for the democrats.
Yeah, but you're placing your financial interests over the rights of women, the rights of gays and other minorities, etc., basically anything over the right to accumulate more and more money by those who're already well off.
Hi, sorry I missed this. I am christian but not really religious. I 'll pray from time to time, but don't regularly go to church.
Not at all, in the conventional sense. I read, study, and glean wisdom from all kinds of religious and philosophical sources, to use in any way that seems helpful. I have no love for any kind of religious dogma or authority or power structure, and I don't believe that faith is more valuable than knowledge and wisdom.
I don't know if you're talking U.S politics or U.K ones here, but Liberals have never really cared about social issues, as has been demonstrated by their siding with the Conservatives in the supposed 'coalition', making their very first action a 100% U-turn on their campaign policy on stopping the VAT increase, and backing the Conservatives on voting to increase it.
Then why aren't you libertarian? I'd much rather see that party gain more momentum than the GOP has now.