There is nothing wrong with trying it, to see if you like it.

I never said it was. All I said was that there may be quite a few men out there that think it is. First let me say that I in no way feel or believe what I am about to say. In the era that I went through childhood and puberty, myself and all the males that I grew up with were all taught that any M/M contact was strictly taboo and forbidden. Gays were called queer and faggot and considered sissies and nothing , but submissive cocksuckers and almost less than human. It was very intolerant times, racial segregation was still acceptable to some extent. So anyone raised in that era and under those conditions might surely feel that sucking cock is extremely submissive. Back then, I had guys tell me that if someone put a gun to their head and said "suck my cock or I'll shoot you in the head" that they would rather have been shot in the head!!!

 

That could be the case if the guy in question believes that sucking cock is a threat to their masculinity and being submissive to kneel and suck cock like that hot bitch in the porno he was jerking off to an hour ago. Indeed, when being with a first-timer who is waffling over sucking dick because (a) he really wants to do it but (b) that's a girl-thing and (c) it doesn't help that part of the long-standing smear campaign against things homosexual says that if you're a man and you're sucking cock, then you're not a man - you're somebody's bitch because only bitches suck cock. "A lot" of these guys don't have a problem with a guy sucking their dick but don't even think about suggesting that they return the favor, you know, to find out if they'd like it or not.

Deep breath and... sigh. Now, a lot of guys here are, by their own admission, submissive cocksuckers who feel it's their honor and duty to kneel before him and worship his prick with their mouth until he gives up his cum. There are a lot of guys here who do not see sucking dick as being submissive in any way - and, yes, I'm one of them who doesn't see it as being a submissive act but this is... secondary stuff that could be involved in the decision to suck a dick or not but one of the reasons why a lot of guys wouldn't want to try it is because... it's gay. I'm not hating on gay men but even they know what society thinks about them because they suck dick and otherwise behave like a female because any man who'd suck a man's cock and let that man fuck him in the ass has to have a lot of sugar in his tank and isn't even anywhere near being society's standards for being masculine. This is the part where I say that effeminate gay men have not done us bi guys any favors because this is probably the #1 reason why guys won't try it.

I used to fuck with guys about sucking cock and asking them, "How do you know you wouldn't like it if you won't try it?" and I have almost soiled myself laughing at them as they pretty much lose their shit and proclaim very loudly that they don't have to try it to know that they wouldn't like it - but they were never able to explain to me how that works. How many of them found out that they liked it? Quite a few of them but that's not the point and it's my own personal experiences with "Try it - you'll like it!"

Then you have the usual reasons for not wanting to try it: Someone might find out and ruin their life; slapping the disease card on the table; loudly proclaiming that they're not gay and they love women and pussy. Some are just afraid of doing something that they've been told never to do; I knew guys who didn't want to try it because they knew they were going to like it... way too much. Some - or maybe most - guys won't try it because they realize that just because they've had a woman sucking on their dick and have watched hours of cocksucking in porn, putting their mouth on a guy's rod is a whole different critter and, as such, it's a huge unknown and a very scary one at that because they do not know what's going to happen if they do it

As I love to say, the psychology involved is fascinating.

 

Regardless what you say about not getting any STD, it is the thing that stops me.

 

I grew up in the same environment and was even “trained” to call guys faggot etc. But when I received my first blowjob and then when I gave my first, I felt only pleasure. I get what you’re saying

 

Yeah, it seems that we grew up in the same era/generation. Guys would rather take a bullet to the head than to suck cock and where I grew up, scum suckers were considered to be worse than the queers and faggots. I've never been a submissive kind of guy but the one gay dude in our cadre, well, if you looked 'submissive' up in a dictionary, you'd see this guy's picture. We would protect him from the bullies and those who'd do him grievous harm, not to curry sexual favor from him but because he was one of us - you mess with one of us, you mess with all of us. It is only now that I could say that he was very damned submissive when sucking dick.

This mindset was a bitch to be living in and being a cocksucker of any kind...

 

I agree. I enjoy giving very long, and slow blow jobs. When I know we have hours to enjoy each other's company I like to orally worship his cock in order to build him up to a very explosive orgasm, hearing him begging to let him cum is also satisfying to hear and when he does finally cum after 60 minutes of orally worshiping his cock you know you have completely drained his balls of every drop he can provide. That is total power and control of the moment and he's very thankful for your efforts as you controlled the entire experience for equal satisfaction.

 

It really sucks that the human race has to be so judgemental, critical of and unaccepting of people that don't think, act, look and believe like "us"!!! Humans should be more like dogs in the respect that if you put two dogs together they will immediately start sniffing and licking each other. They don't care if they're licking a female dog or another male dog. Just think of the freedom and sexual opportunities that we would all have if we just admitted we were all bisexual.

 

Since our society isn't going to admit to anything other than being mandated to be heterosexual, the good part is that a lot of men are discovering bisexuality and finding - making - their own happiness sexually and otherwise. A lot of guys are still willing to try it to see if they'd like it as long as no one else finds out that they took M2M for a test drive. Almost every guy who tried it with me found that they liked it immensely but, importantly, they all spoke about that sense of being freed from the moral and social restrictions; they understand the differences between bisexual and homosexual; they have said that "the whole world has opened up before them" and allowing them to see the possibilities and, yes, the opportunities.

I've told those guys, "Now you know like I do..."

 

I’m in my 60’s and been mostly straight to the outside world, married twice and love the company of women but there’s that fascination and desire to suck another mans cock that I just can’t shake off. I get so much pleasure in being naked with a guy, watching his penis go from soft to hard, holding it, and if he is uncut, gently pull the foreskin back and put it in my mouth. The taste and scent drives me wild and I will suck and lick his cock all over, gently holding his balls and the ultimate reward is feeling his cock stiffen just before the spasms of orgasm flooding my mouth with his warm salty cum as I look up at him. In my experience most men I’ve sucked to completion are married guys who’s wives deny them the pleasure, if you fall into that category and you live in the UK in the county of Devon, send me a message lol

 

Although I love being a sub sissy, it's all about pleasure and not really control or various power structures or anything of that nature, at least most of the time.