There's no greater feeling...

Well, I think it's possessive. And I don't think that's good, no... but I don't know how to be okay with the fact that the one I love could be attracted to other women. Is that even normal, for someone to be in love and still be attracted to other people? No I'm sorry that was stupid... is it normal for a GUY to be attracted to other girls while in love with someone already? Cause I know I'm attracted to other guys but it doesn't mean I wanna fuck them...

 

people in general whatever kind, are not going to stop feeling attracted to attractive members of the opposite sex...whether they think its worth it to act on that impulse shows the level they feel it

 

Did you ever think that they feel the same way...men find women attracted...some men find men attractive...I find women attractive, but that doesn't mean I want to go out and fuck them. How is it OK for you to find men attractive, but you think it's wrong for your bf to find women attractive?

 

I know... I'm just extremely bitter right now...

 

Actually, I thought that line sounded like it was ripped right out of my playbook.

 

Attracted to? Hell yes! Obsessive? Crossing that line?

No...

Some guys are not cut out for monogamy. Not that it is wrong to be that way... What is wrong is lying to the one you are with while you are screwing someone else.

If everyone has an understanding that's one thing...

But, if the guy you are with makes you miserable, leave.

Have some self worth. Don't let someone else decide how you will feel about you.

As hard as it is to walk away, do it. You'll be better for it.

 

I guess cause I'd never cheat and I feel it's mostly men who can't control their cocks... and cause I'm bitter and not over the fact that my ex hooked up with my best friend, who's ugly

 

Ouch...

Some people fall in love for OTHER reasons...

And what people find attractive in a mate is different for everyone.

 

Actually, no, I did not.

dig·ni·fy 1. To confer dignity or honor on; give distinction to: dignified him with a title.
2. To raise the status of (something unworthy or lowly); make honorable: would not dignify the insulting question with a response.

Notice I did not say I wouldn't dignify it with a response, only that I would not dignify it.
This means, I would not honor your comment, nor give it special praise.
You do not impress me with your fictitious ego.
That's right. I said it. Fictitious ego.
You obviously have very low self esteem. So low, in fact, that you feel the need to brag about the women you can get.
People who truly are so wonderful, do not need to announce their wonderfulness to others, because it goes without saying.
You do not intimidate me because I see right through you.
The fact that you, yourself, fail to see it, is truly what is frightening.

 

To your rescue, Penny, any man that isn't willing to bend over backwards for you is clearly not worth your time...you can do so much better.

 

he's not in love with her... and also I meant she's ugly inside and out, but especially inside, for betraying me. She WAS my friend, so I thought.

 

Way to be mature about things

 

How do you KNOW he doesn't love her?

That is pretty shitty of her though...

But, now that it has happened, why are you hanging around? You wanna relive it?

 

I like skidrowgirl...

She knows how fucking stupid you are.

 

Yep, sure is normal. I mean, attraction doesn't mean you have to follow through on anything, it just means that someone has a trait you find attractive. Doesn't mean they're better than who you might be with at the time, just that they have at least one thing that counts as attractive. Love doesn't stop you from being able to recognize attractive traits in other people.

 

That would really make you feel so good wouldn't it?

To know that you're that important in someone's life that they are consumed by you, right?

You must have a really lonely life.

 

Well I am bitter and can't think like a mature, responsible person right now. More like a psychopath.

He doesn't love her cause he still loves me... so he said... was a drunken thing... and I don't think they fucked but I don't wanna know... but I still think women in general have a much easier time resisting their hormones and the need to jump on amything sexy...

 

So people can't simultaneously be in love with two people? Or did he explicitly tell you he was not in love with her?

Sometimes love isn't enough hon. In fact, very rarely if ever, is it enough.

 

Thank you. It's a gift, really. J/K.
Yeah, I meet men like this all the time in my area.
They amuse me. I just sit back on my bench and watch these little monkies fling their dung at passers by, all in the name of getting attention. It's sad, really.
Some feel the need to try and act the bad ass to get girls.
They suffer from little man syndrome, and it's usually the taller men who do this. You know who I picture when I read IJ's posts?
I picture someone like that character "Rick" from Mad TV.
If you've ever seen him, you'll know why.
I also picture some dude wearing a light colored business jacket over an open shirt, with a hairy chest, and about ten gold chains around his neck. Probably some plaid polyester bell bottoms, thick mustache, bad toupee, and brown aviator sunglasses. You know the type. You see him spraying breath freshener into his mouth, just before he tries his big line on you.
He's a "wild and cu-razy guy!" LOL.