Thoughts on picking girls up at a bar/club

The library is one of my top favorite places to get girls. It's right above the Cadillac dealership.


Note: I'm not kidding. I have gone to the Cadillac dealership to pick up chicks.

They have money and generally class, what more could a guy want?

 

Example of a cocky funny opener:

Walk up to the girl directly and say, "I think... you'd look better with your hair up."
Allow her to put her hair up then say, "Mmm, never mind now it looks like chipmunks tail!"
Cut the thread move onto something else.

or a good one my friend used was:
Walking up to a girl and saying "I'm going to hit on you." That was it, she smiled and went on to another topic of conversation.

 

I'm going to a night baseball game tonight so I'll have to improvise my openers. Maybe ask them for a light or throw my hat towards then, ask them to get it for me and accuse them of trying to steal it. I don't know, I'll let the shit fly tonight!

 

just wing man it

but be genuine. it's like that streets song. if you come across a little bit not interested then she'll want to know why you aren't all desperately coming on to her like all the other guys and she might start to persue you herself.

 

Exactly. Respect, for knowing the game

 

But those are all indirect. I'm talking about directness.

 

Those are direct openers. Give me an exapmle of what you're talking about and I'll try to elaborate on it.

 

I don't think I have picked up any random person before, all my dates were people I knew before through friends, school and such.

 

thats the best way Aqualite then your friends got your back and you have something in common already

 

heh don't tell anyone. the guys like to think they are calling all the shots. but i know better.

 

I looove giving mixed signals playfully.

Examples:

I hate you come here *give her a hug* Ok, now get off *push her away, smile*

OMG, you're Australian? I looove Australians, I had the biggest crush on an Australian girl back in middle school! I can't even talk to you anymore *smile, head turn*

Do these kind of things enough times and the tension builds. The woman literally pops!

 

"Hi, nice bod." *grab something* Then release it.

 

Oh yeah! My boy Steve P's classic:

Walk up to her and blatantly stare at her breasts then say, "I bet most me do this and then compliment on your eyes." Then look into her eyes and say, "But, I'd never do that to a beauty like you. I'd rather look into your eyes and tell you how nice your tits are!" Release

 

There you go. That's my style basically.

Be ridiculously aggressive, then back off.

 

You should try going caveman. Walk up to a group of girls put your arms up in the air and yell Woooooooo!!! Then pick up the one who is the most receptive, spin her around and give her a kiss. It takes balls to do but, it works on girls with obvious high energy.

 

I've done it. I kissed girls without saying a word on many ocasions. Never got burnt either.


But you have to gauge it REALLY well. Risky gambit, of course. But everything is fair in love and war.

 

don't you guys ever worry you'll come off as total douche bags? or is that the point?

 

Oh yeah and it really pumps buying temperature. The girls start clapping and shreiking. It's a beautiful thing.

 

My feeling is...there is a part of me that IS a douche bag, and women don't necessarily dislike it. Or, rather, part of them does, and part of them doesn't.

It's all about conveying different parts of yourself and not getting stuck.

 

That's the point of gauging the girl. Asking a girl what the 7 oceans are(indirect opener) is not douche baggy at all I think the it's like 80% asshole 20% nice guy.