Thoughts on picking girls up at a bar/club

that's not the same as some of the other examples that have been put up.

 

True. Different girl, different situation, different style of opener. If I feel like being safe I'll go with something girls can't wait to give an oppinion on, but I like taking risks. It's a party enviornment, you can get away with dickhead stunts most of the time.

 

Zen, don't you think there is a risk in being overly concerned with boundaries.

I mean, I'm as appreciative of boundaries as anyone, but there is a risk of stepping on eggs every time you meet a stranger.

 

I'm just saying I see guys in bars and stuff acting like that and laugh inwardly and make fun of them in print when I get home.

 

I do that too, but only if they don't get the girl. I then analyze what they did wrong and make sure I don't do it.

 

I think you're trying to peg me as a frat guy.

It's hard to visualize it by written language. It's not frat-boy at all.

But, yeah, I do go crazy when I feel like it.

 

smooth

 

well if it works for you guys than I have nothing to say. I agree it depends on the circumstances, but having a hidden ploy before you walk into the club or wherever it is you go would defeat the entire purpose (for me).

if I kiss some girl standing next to me who I've never spoken to before, it only means she turns me on and I want to celebrate that fact. no game about it.

 

the op would be an idiot to take these advices he was interested in knowing how tpo approach a girl hes intertested in the only way is to be genuin and say hello
you can be a douchebag to 100 girls piss off 99 and get lucky with the 1 drunk enough to fall for stupidity but when you use these approaches trying toi get thatr 1 girl youd be interested in you have a 99% chance of ruining your chances entirely


just wait for the female opinions on this ..these are just guys trying to impress guys that doesnt work with the girls they will see ya as a total fool but u might get lucky with the 1 girl with the lowest self esteem...


tricks dont work except with idiots

to the op trust me on this for what ya are loooking for... be genuimne.. dont play games ir u will lose... players play they take a gamble try tricks on every1 they see hoping 1 falls for the game... your life isnt a gamble if u want 1 wgho is loyal....dont play games dont try tricks lines or techniques just be yourself be honnest and start with hello



anythi9ng else and she'll see it as just another game

the loyal girl u sayu u want dont want no fool who practices lines on 1000 other girls she wants the 1 whos willing to just be straight with her





i gave ya the best advice of all here and your welcome to call me a cocktard all u want




the true cocktards here are rthe fools settin u up to fail with anyu1 whos not totaly drunk...

 

I don't have any hidden ploys actually. I've never used a routine in my life.

I'm just really aggressive when I'm in the mood to.

I don't need a pick up line because I know anything neutral is good as conversation starter. AND, I can gauge when women are receptive to the more aggressive part of me.

That's all. None of this is rehearsed in front of my bathroom mirror. Trust me.

 

I repeat: the approach style matters LEAST in seducing a woman.


It is the least of factors.

P.S. I also like to do a silent approach sometimes I'm in the mood for. I promise: no talking, and I can get a woman's interest depending. Body language only.

 

I understand completely and I've done that. I just don't like chasing perpetual skirts. personally, when I'm sober I never approach a girl if I don't get the impression she's already interested.

 

walk up and say do you like pasta
cause you make alfredo sauce come out my dick?
lol thats the best one so far

 

Well here's the thing 1st of all, soaring I'll never call you a cocktard you are actually my favorite hippy of all times and thats no bullshit Just for a second though think of it from the percpective of a woman of particular beauty. An extremely beautiful woman(ones who I go after) have been hit on thousands of times by the time they hit 24, they have to develop an auto response. They can't give every guy the time of day especially if they are the typical dudes. Walking up to one at the bar/club or whatever and saying hi to her has a very high likely hood of her sticking you into that category and brushing you off. Is she a really a bitch? Experience says no. She's just a bitch at that moment to you because she sees you as "the next guy." Now, approaching her group and befriending them and activley ignoring her, she wont feel that pressure of you hitting on her. That's it. Just a technique for the initial conversation starter. After that it's all about body language, sub-communications and sexual tension which can be done freestyle. Oh and I practice what I preach, I'm no arm chair venusian.

 

is that what happens when she kicks u in the balls?

 

I usually do that too, but I do instigate.

But that's a little limiting. I've approached girls sober asking stupid shit before and it's a lot of fun.

It's really not an interested or not interested thing for me. I'm not crossing any boundaries actually, so what's the harm?

It's actually not chasing them. It's making them chase me.

 

no man jus making a little cream sauce for her
thats all
ball kicks suck

 

i agree talking to her freinds is a good idea being freindly to the whole group and not blatantly using techniques and lines just hang out and talk then let her know you enjoyed hanging out and would love to again...

i waswnt commin down on ya just trying to impress on the op that trying cheesy lines like some suggested had a real possibility of ruining all chances especialy with a pretty girl whos been hit on relentlessly all her life .. the 1 thing they loook for thats hard to find is some1 who treats them as a human with respect and isnt just staring at theyree chest drooling saying anything thedy can to get in theyre pants...


ijn other words aim higher... aim for getting into theyre heads the pants will follow

 

Yeah, don't use pick up lines. Use a neutral opener. Anything can be a neutral opener. Picasso's penis can be a neutral opener.


OR go direct.

That's all I have to say.

 

Respect.