Threesome Disasters

That is so fucking hot, to have your wife being so comfortable in front of you to just completely lost in fucking your friend in front of you. I hope you fucked her real hard soon after the "affair" and set it up for them to repeat.

 

If your wife likes them don't deny her, she will be more aware next time

 

It happens sometimes when in the heat of the moment the third and SO get too involved with each other leaving one standing there feeling left out. I avoided disaster once when my FB invited her GF to join us. My FB stepped out of the room leaving us alone. She was gone long enough, too long, that we had gotten into it before she came back. When she did I was already balls deep in the GF's pussy. FB got upset we didn't wait. In order to smooth things out we stopped our copulation and turned our attention to my FB. It was difficult to stop fucking the GF because she felt so good wrapped around my cock. But if I hadn't it would have turned for the worse. I never said this to either of them but the GF's pussy fit my cock a lot better than my FB's. As I went between the two it became increasingly difficult to pull out of the GF and go back to my FB. I did unload in my FB's pussy and GF and I cleaned up the mess together. Unfortunately we never hooked up again as my FB moved and we had to break it off. Don't know where the GF is. That was the only time I saw her and only know her first name.

 

I let jealousy and disappointment ruin it for me and I would be more assertive in hindsight. It would have been very exciting if I was just wanting to watch my wife get fucked but it was supposed to be two of us pleasuring my wife and her in turn pleasuring us. I felt left out and the more I thought about it the madder I got. I ended up not cumming at all and I am just glad Eric and I are still good. I just caution everyone to think it through and lay some ground rules before hand. Even things like what you are comfortable allowing such as oral or anal sex should be discussed. I would have preferred my wife not to have been fucked in the ass and not to have been so into the kissing but we never discussed anything prior.

 

My wife and I have never had a threesome but we have friends who did. In all three cases they went south, mainly due to one of the spouses hooking up privately with the third party. It's been enough to keep us away from that pursuit, though we both fantasize about it.

 

The first first threesome attempt for me, my wife and her boyfriend was kind of a disaster. He was cool with me watching them kiss, make out and her sucking his cock while I stroked my own cock, but when she wanted to suck my cock while he fucked her from behind, he got really awkward, and it was over almost as fast as it started.

He has recently told my wife that he'd like to try the threesome again, but if we did, I'd really like to play with both of them, not just her

 

That guy was wrong for fucking her behind his back. I would never do that!

 

My 10 inch cowboy. A couple meet with a guy, and both. ended up dead. This was in Ok. several years ago. So you have be careful who you play with.

 

I guess I have two different takes on the situation. And forgive me ahead of time as I tend to get a little long-winded when talking about such subjects.

Eons ago, my wife, now X, and I started fantasizing about her becoming a hot wife. We both got off on the idea, but wasn’t sure how to proceed. That was answered for us when her trainer at the gym really started flirting with her and eventually asked her out, she asked what I thought she should do? I told her it was up to her, but if she wanted to, go for it! A few days later, she went to his house mid afternoon. I was somewhat angst, watching her get dolled up for her.”date”. Probably the longest couple of hours while she was at his place. And I was all over her when she got home and bombarded her with 1 million questions. Just a lot of making out that first time, and a few days later a second date. Lots of oral, but no penetrative sex. I several days later she informed me that she had another date coming up. I asked her if she was going to have sex with him this time…… she just grinned. And the only rule that I had is that he had to use condoms. She was OK with that even though she didn’t like them. As crazy as it was during the third day, I get a phone call from her. Apparently, he hates condoms and every time, he went to put one on he lost his erection. The wife asked me how I feel about him going bareback. I thought my cock was going to explode! Told her it was up to her, she thanked me, and hung up. Excruciating few hours followed. But when she got home, I was all over her. My first case of slippery seconds, or should I say thirds, as he came in her twice. That started a six month affair that morphed into her cock holding me. She would either disappear or inform me that she was going to his house, or he’d be at our house while I was out of town. More angst when she and I would have sex, I would always bring up her lover and ask 1 million questions. He got to the point that it was all I could think about while I was having sex with her. It started to annoy her. “ Why can’t it be just about us? Why do you always have to bring xxx into our bedroom?” One night after one of their rendezvouses we were going at it, and she started crying! She told me that she thought she was falling in love with him! Holy shit! He talk about a punch in the balls! I asked her to stop seeing him to which she agreed. I thought. She would sneak out and sleep with him. Finally, I think he realized that she wanted more than just casual sex, so he dumped her. It ruined her, and she became an emotional wreck. We eventually divorced. How can such a sexual fantasy become so expensive?

my current life and I had such fantasies starting when we were engaged. We role-played a lot, and it was a ton of fun. Travel was we couldn’t find a suitable threesome partner. Eventually one of my college buddies was coming to town and I asked her about him? he’s a good looking guy and I know that he thought my fiancé was hot. And I talk to him about it and he was game and so was my fiancé. And our first night with him was incredible! His cock was constantly hard, and he had incredible staying power. My emotions were all over the place between arousal, insecurity, jealousy, and totally turned on. The disaster part started with round two, and I couldn’t help myself, but I came in my fiancé and a spit roast. Once I was spent, I lost all interest or ability. They kept going for another half hour, and I sat there with a limp dick. And I felt humiliated, inadequate, worthless. she enjoyed it so much that he came back the next night, and we did it all again. Same emotions on my part! I feel worthless, and ignored while they kept going. Eventually after six months of threesomes my wife called it off. our last time with him I was like a fly on the wall….. they were so into each other. So, my wife eventually called it off, no more threesomes. Unfortunately, when I had sex with my wife, it was all I could think about…… watching him, have sex with her and coming in her. I think we both felt he was falling in love with her, and she was smart enough to realize the same thing. To this day whenever we make love, all I can think about is him having sex with her…… my cock was in the same place as his wife. It basically ruined our sex life. The two of them together was all I could think about. And it still turns me on, but we no longer have a sex life because she thinks that is all I think about. Unfortunately, it’s true.

Be careful what you wish for….. it may bites you in the butt.

 

I was caught with a married woman, by her mother-in-law. husband was ok with me being with his wife. But the mother-in-law showed up unexpected one day. Didn't end well, another time a couple of mothers became suspicious, but never knew for sure.

 

Watching or knowing that your partner is having sex with another guy is heady stuff. A lot of emotions and it's super intense. You need to be happy with what's going on and be prepared for the consequences . He's going to make her orgasm and he's goi g to ejaculate into her. That may be a thrill or a disaster but you,will have to live with it forever. In my case it's super exciting and sexy but if it's not for you don't start. Once he's fucking her its too late.

 

All good points. If you’re the husband DONT CUM FIRST!

 

Why?

 

Ok thank you. I’ve almost always come first during any group sex. But I keep going for at least a couple more rounds so I suppose it’s just not the same issue.

 

What you say is so true. We talked about her having another guy for over a year. When it happened it happens quick. We were both ready for it, I was surprised how she just looked at it as just sex.

 

It is “just sex”. Once a couple come to that conclusion in their relationship, it breaks down barriers and allows them to add new life experiences. Life is short…Live it to the fullest.

 

Yes it is good to explore, and try different people and things. We found we had taken each other for granted, and group sex was a good awake up call.

 

Back in our early exploitation days, fiancé (now wife) and I started toying with the idea of swapping with another couple. We talked extensively about what we wanted and what we expected. She said that if we did go through with it what scenarios would we want? She thought she would prefer the same room swap. I like that idea because I wanted to see her having sex with another guy or gal. I also felt like separate room swapping would be better without her watching me another woman. I felt like we could be free to let ourselves go without prying eyes. It got to the point that we placed an ad looking for a local like minded couple. Included a couple G rated pictures in the ad. We weren’t Barbie and Ken, no slouches either in our late 30s. It seem like it took forever to get decent responses to our ad, but we did get two that were very intriguing. The first couple was a little younger than us, and in their pictures were nice. We ended up talking with them online and telephone for a while. They were not experienced swingers, but had indulged a few times, and wanted new friends. He was straight, and she was somewhat bi with limited the same sex experience. Made arrangements to meet them at a popular bar in town for drinks. Meeting them was an eye-opener. She was beautiful and I think that we both wanted her as my fiancé it was bi curious. Unfortunately, he was a dud! We talk and got along fine, but he didn’t do anything for us. Almost like a grease ball, and we couldn’t figure out what she saw in him. Their responses previously said he had a big cock. Maybe that was it. As the evening or on, I could tell my fiancé was less and less interested in being with him, although we were both interested in her. We both politely declined their invitation to continue this party at a local hotel. Strike one!
A lot of communicating with the second couple. Both about our age, married, and much more experienced. They were both fit and attractive…… and bisexual. That got our attention. We arrange for a meeting and drinks at another local hotspot, although a little more intimate than the other place. They were both fit and very attractive, and we seem to hit it off. We had agreed that this was just a meet and greet, and no sex would happen at this first night. I felt we both wanted the both of them. He was handsome fit, and she was a petite, smoking, hot blonde. So we went our separate ways with the agreement that we would get together again sooner rather than later. I was hoping for sooner! And then the dealbreaker. On the way home, I fiancé informs me that she doesn’t think she could handle seeing me or knowing I’m having sex with this woman. Damn! I wanted to have sex with both of them. So that was the end of our exploration. Fiancé was more jealous than I realized. But this didn’t stop my fiancé from having sex with this other woman for one evening……alone. A one and done night.
I guess the point is that if we had gone through swapping with either couple, it would’ve been the end of our relationship. And now 25 years later, I guess I am happy that she confessed her insecurities to me. I wish she thought more like I do. …. It’s just sex and fun and new experiences.

 

Jim and Jan,
It’s good that y’all recognized that to be taken for granted is never a good thing in your relationship. Kudos to you, my friend.
From the start of our lifestyle experience, we entered it with our eyes wide open. My wife and I are each others protectors. If I never have sex with another woman again… I have all I need in my wife. Likewise she is very happy in our relationship. We are a extremely close couple.