I appreciated that he thought I had obviously never been to such a party- I used to go to plenty like that and would have pulled the same selfish shit as him because at his age I hadn't grown up either... I deserved to get the shit kicked out of me for some of the crap I pulled.
I appologized 3 times, he was shitfaced and there was no talking to him. I wish you guys knew how ignorant he was being, it really would have pissed anyone off. He would just say "sorry aint enough u fucks in my moms rooms mang get the fuck out..IM GETTIN PISSED MAN GET THE FUCK OUT" in front of his new "friends". Sorry stinkfoot, i didnt mean to snap. Ive always thought u were a cool guy. Im just saying i was respectful and remorseful. Im not even pissed about the fact i got kicked out, just how it was done. His attitude was that i stole a 2000 dollar hd tv or something. He wanted to feel powerful at the very moment because of intoxication. The whole situation was bogus because people were doing things a lot worse than what i did. I just get REALLY pissed whenever somebody trys to put on a front, just to act "cool". I just hate fake people. Sorry again for the racial slurs and my attitude, very immature.
Well dude... I certainly see your side to this so no harm no foul. It's difficult to really believe you have much of a leg to stand on here though. One day perhaps you'll be honing the fine art of selecting better friends... because speaking at least for myself, we tend to become to a great extent very much like the people they surround ourselves with... or perhaps it's the other way around. Showing some conscience is a hell of a good start. Make peace with the dude then cut him off socially. At 18 you really deserve to reflect better values... because your current social circle seems pretty self destructive from what was related in the OP. Ya gotta go through your paces though... and make your own mistakes. It's how we learn.
Still remember, people have different morals, if there's a bunch of people in the house if the house gets trashed that's no problem, that can be clean easily. People stealing shit, well the dude obviously didn't know, no matter what your morals are you don't let people steal crap from your house. Some people take great offense though to people have sex on their parents bed, or their own bed, to a lot of people that's a huge sign of disrespect, because of what's going on in the act people don't like other people fucking on their bed.
Thank you for that is very wise advice. My only problem is i live in a very very small town, so i dont have that much of a selection to who i sorround myself with, until i get my license back. Im going to listen to you, next time i see him im going to explain myself, then cut him off for good. I just cant express how much i dislike people who believe there a lot "cooler" and "smarter" than they really are. Expecially if they're drunk. Hey but ill live.
Yeah, I can see why he would be mad about his mom's bed. But if you talked to you about it before and was O.K with it, it doesn't make sense that he would freak out about it. And that's why I don't really like to drink or be around drunk people. They do stupid shit. It's his fault for not laying down any ground rules for what is/isn't acceptable to do in his house. Just forget about him and his little posse.