Tibetan book of living/dying Sogyal Rinpoche....

That seems like manipulation from a very much unenlightened being to me. No one can bestow enlightenment upon you. At best they are signposts
like meditation, a book, a personal spiritual experience, meeting an inspiring person.

It was alleged sexual abuse proposition directed specifically to young beautiful women, if you did not know. Watch the video. It was not isolated. He was not requesting a queue of old, ugly, fat, smelly blokes to perform felatio. He knew what he wanted and used all the "you're special".

Naive as hell yes, but manipulated for sex.

It is the antithesis of understanding the role of desire, pleasure and the inseparable other side of the coin, pain and suffering. Not to even mention compassion, unconditional love and karma. He manipulated the weak and gullible. there are a lot of people like that around, leeches that fulfill their selfish needs on the weak and vulnerable. One woman was sexually abused as a child and as such was looking for guidance and was instead subjected to the will of his desires.

Just a deviant in a robe who had significant help to write a book.