He never implicated you had an alter ego at least I believe, he was just saying your wife used this forum along time ago supposedly and apparently had the same views.
He wants proof, you don't have it, same old story different thread. Why not prove him incorrect and then all his assumptions about you can be as good as gone?
did you forget we were talking about alter egos and i dont have to prove anything to anyone. i dont care if you dont believe me - it changes nothing.
[/QUOTE] just to make it clear... my wife called me from work - i didnt call her. you might want to work on your reading retention... that goes for all three of you. i think it would be a good idea for you all to go back and read this thread again and this time pay attention.
If you can have such attitude than expect others to have the same. I know you must be ashamed of your wife since you can not prove she exists.
i am not going to show you a picture of myself either so i guess i dont exist... that is why i call myself 3xi - i am a fantom inside the internet. maybe you could take a picture of your dick so that we can all be sure your not a girl. nevermind - i will just take your word for it. now i feel bad about this thread going so far off topic. but what can we do? go ahead and take the last word - its yours if you want it!
alright cool i got it then thank you. Sure i'll get you a picture just make sure you aint viewing it with your imaginary wife
Relayer I love you so much but you are losing this one. Nobody goes around and ASKS his partner to change completly. And you don't stay with someone just because you have an idea to change them. And nobody can change you if you don't want. But saying that you are staying always the same is not true. Everybody are changing every day. That process comes naturally and you might not even be aware of it. When the love is real there is no space for lies and doubts. You know each other to the tinies detail so why lieing about something. How one can lie to somebody he shares everything, your whole self with and look them into the eyes. How that one can look himself into the mirror? Moments of weaknesses can exist in the begining and it's up to you can you handle it or not. But if you realy love someone why you should come to that moment of weakness. If there is another man/women that means the love is not real anymore and why waisting each others life. Rather stop lieing each other and yourselves. Yes, you can not measure love that you have and other persons love and compare them. You love without expecting anything in return but that other person also loves like that and that combination is called being in love. And words have no meaning in such relationship. "Look them into the eyes when they say I love you" And "to die for" means for me that the life of my husband and life of my daughter are more valuable to me than my own. If I was asked anytime to choose which one of us should go I would choose my life. Call it stupid but that's love for the other person.
The differance is that EVERYONE knew who it was when I used mine, including the moderater and head dude of this forum, and I didnt claim to be my wife.
LSD, I love you too, but it happens! Im wasnt talking personally about you or 3xi. But I was talking to human beings in general, and the truth is that love can be and often is one sided, and there is no way to know what is on your partners mind. How can one know? Its not possible. You can believe you know, sure, who hasnt been in that position? But that does not mean that you know 100% for sure. I dont care to give my personal experiences and reasons for saying these things but believe me, I know what Im talking about. Love is delusive when it is reliant on another person for one own happiness. Plenty of people SAY they would die for there partner, but until that oppuritunity presents itself, such strong promises should be left unsaid, in my opinion. Not that you guys shouldnt say these things to each other, what I am saying is that I would never say such things. Again, that is. -
there is a very good chance that relayer will never know what it is like to be in love. if anyone ever tries to love him he wont believe them and there is no way that kind of relationship will ever last. relationships are built on trust. relayer - with all my heart i pray that you find a way to be open enough to trust someone who tries to love you. when you see the love in a persons eyes i pray you dont miss it or mistake it for something else. maybe you must learn to love yourself - that way it wont be so hard for you to believe that someone loves you too. please - i do not want to get into another argument. i say what i say to you out of love and compassion. you can listen to us or you can go on thinking you have love all figured out - i hope you hear us. i will not pretend that i know exactly how to get through to you and this is my last attempt. i have made my points very clearly so you must be in denial - or too afraid to admit that maybe you are wrong. i am sure there are millions of people out there who would agree with us. i really do feel sorry for you. i dont say this to upset you or make you look bad - it is the truth. i would feel sorry for anyone in your shoes.(your not alone) sending you peace and love
Again missing it. No you don't depend on that love it's a way of giving love. It's not what you can get from it it's what you can give. You stay true happy with or without it. There is one good like excercise when you are asked what you would be if this or that is taken from you and you don't have it anymore. At the end stays only you and you realize that you are happy self, that you are love. So don't be selfish give your happy self to the others. As I said you love unconditionaly without expecting anything in return. It is a bit similar to loving kids but with them it's much easier. I know it happens so many times to be only one way but that shouldn't stop you or anyone else to be opened enough to any opportunity. If you are going in relationship with that fear that you gonna get hurt you don't open yourself enough to the other person and chances are that will really happen as you have it on your mind, you can even put that tought on your partner too. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I know it's not easy and it can be awfully painful but if you don't try you never know. It's good to know that it exists and it's not a fairytale so chances are that it can happen. Love you all
LSD that is divine love, not love of a partner as an individual who you care for more than anyone else in this world. Two very different things. And why are they different? Well, lets put it this way. Say, for example, not naming names and in no way is this being directed at anyone in particular but to all who are discussing this, that your partner has been sleeping with other people behind your back and you find out, not from that person, but from someone else, would you still want to spend the rest of your life with them? Would you still die for that person? And what if all the while, you thought they loved you because of a feeling or a look in their eyes, and what if they did love you but made a mistake? That kind of forgivness, to still love them, is called empathy, it is called universal, unconditional, divine love. If you have your heart broken, that is an individual form of love that is not only subject to change, but dependent upon circumstances, situations, and moves like a flame in the wind to the adversity of the worlds impulses and actions. Divine love is equal for all sentient beings, individual love is only there for one other person, and it CAN be shattered wether you want to believe that or not. -
Lol just because somebody can accept the very TRUE fact that you can never be 100% sure about anothers love (after all, love IS abstract), doesn't mean they can't believe somebody else does. Just because somebody isn't 100% sure doesn't mean the relationship fails in distrust either. There is no set guidelines on how a relationship works, they are very unregulated. There is no physical trait of love one can use to measure to find out how exactly their partner feels. Somebody doesn't have to fall in love with you inorder for you to fall in love with them, and that wouldn't make sense anyway. All you can do is assume that your partner loves you by the signs he or she shows, and if that's your grounds for trusting them, then so be it. People fall in love and then one side wants to break up. Doesn't mean they were not in love, something could of happen or one side was unsure about the move of getting together in the first place. You really are a jack ass aren't you? There is a very good chance karma will bite you in the ass one day for making such negative comments on other peoples personal lives. Chances also are you don't know shit about RELAYER and neither do I. There's boundaries as to what can be assumed. I could only imagine how many times you got your ass got kneed in the nuts for thinking you could read women, lmao.
I see where the problem is. You see each love different, individual with no connection between them. For me all loves are part of divine love.
The only thing that makes it different, is if you have certain expectations for another human being to live up to in order for your love for them to remain the same, it is no longer divine. Divine love does not require anything more than existance, which, existance is divine love, itself. Anything else is based on the body you currently inhabit and the conditions for that individual love to grow, like a plant that needs water. Divine love doesnt need water, it IS water, as well as the plant, so to speak