lol,,, i dont,,an im actually glad to see others coming in line with my way of thinking ..... if ya know what im sayin,,er typin..
So, Relayer, according to you, every time you meet new girl you love her differently, because it is different person and you can't trust them all the same?!?! You say that only devine love is unconditional, why, you think that one can't cheat on you? Man, if you can and know how to love one thing or a person, you know to love everything and everybody! According to what you are saying, if tomorrow you have some daughts in devine love, you might stop loving even that way! I really must go with 3xi and LSD ASAP on this, you need to learn to love unconditionaly, to open your hart and soul to everybody, without even thinking (not asking) of getting something in return! The best way to get something is to give. If you new how to give love, instead of questioning and doubting if your partner loves you, that person would've have chance to love you. Saying that you love somebody doesn't mean that, but showing it constantly, unconditionaly, with full trust and surrender is much more important. And if you don't know how to give yourself fully, how do you expect to know that your partner is giving herself to you. You would be blind for the thing like that and your partner would feel that the love that she is giving to you is not returned, or even refused, and that hurts my man. Why are you thinking on the first place if you can trust that person, is it because you can not trust yourself first? In my expirience (almost, if not 100%) when one of the partners is suspecting that the other one is cheating,it is because they on the first place have that intention! Why on the first place would you think that your partner is cheating on you, because you were thinking of cheating on your partner! If you can not trust to yourself, logical question is how to trust anybody else. I am sending all my love to you and I wish you can learn to love and trust first to yourself, because than you will be able to open yourself to somebody fully, without doubts and questions, and that is the only thing you need to find out that all the "different" types of love (that's how you called it) are part of one devine love! I wish you with all my hart to find the love that LSD ASAP, 3xi and I are trying to explain to you!! You can deny what I am telling you here on the forums, but please (for your sake, and don't forget this comes from pure love and care for you) next time when you are maditating or tripping, ask deeply yourself can you trust yourself. And if you find out that you can, than try to open 100% to your parter and to love unconditionaly. Even if that person goes away from you eventually, you will know that you loved that person completely, 100% with your body, soul and mind. And belive me, you will not be hurt, you will feel sorry for that person who refused that pure love for something else, completely unimportant. "Please God forgive them because they don't know what they are doing" - sounds familiar? And you asked LSD ASAP if she finds out that her partner was cheating on her. I can tell you that I love my wife so much, that even if that happens, it is forgiven now, before that happend, that is how beautifull love is!! And just because she is loved like that, she will never do it! Love you all!
that gos against human nature and i truly hope you never have to test your theory because statistics show that to be untrue.. your unconditional love does not control anothers behavior.. it must be mutual,,an if she cheated,it wouldnt be...
I agree with you billy that's why I said if that happens it was not real and unconditional and better not waiste each others time anymore. It's not about forgivness, no matter how it hurts that part is easy, it's about staying like that and for it you need both sides. It's not because somebody is loved like that it will never happen it's because that person also loves like that. And when you find two people like that than it's a match. But if you don't and even if after some time you realize it was mistake one should stay open to be able to give that love to somebody else. The fear is your worst enemy.
Exactly! I am just saying you should love always like that, if it doesn't work, that is not person for you and you are wasting each others time. But when it works, and both person love like that, there is nothing more beautifull!!!! I am together with my wife for 12 years, and just when I think I can't love her any more, it happens that I realize that I love her more than yesterday. It just looks like we can't get enough of each other, instead getting bored! We often joke that we can't wait to get retired so we can have all the time in the world for us.
Father forgive them for they know not what they are doing. - Jesus. Of course it sounds familliar its my favorite quote of all time lol. But did you stop to wonder why Jesus is said to have never married? Or Buddha? Or Krnsa? And that they renounced devoting their all encompassing love to a woman and instead used it to share with all of mankind so as not to limit their divine perception? That kind of forgiveness is divine, but it is not what sustains a relationship. Should you have to forgive someone for cheating on you, face it, the person doesnt love you like you may love them. There is no other way around it you guys lol that is reality.