Its depends most of the time i am the one fucking my girlfriend but occasionally she will put on her strapon and im the bottom. So switch i guess
Agree with "With my wife I'm a switch (can be dominant or submissive), yet with men, I'm a submissive bottom. My most intense sexual dreams/fantasies involve me being a totally submissive bottom for a handsome, "aggressive", dominant TOP guy with a really nice cock. Unfortunately, I've never actually been totally sexually dominated by a guy before... But for the RIGHT guy, I definitely envision myself being collared, leashed," Not Caged," and made to be his personal cum dump whenever he wanted."
Switch because turnabout is fair play. Mostly I'm a passionate submissive for aggressive dominant females because I have a bit of brat in me and need correction, but sometimes the right male just brings out the bitch in me. I love getting my hands on a novice sub and teaching him new things.
Switch. Sometimes I want to be in control sometimes not, usually in the same session. There are advantages to both.