that was the point.....but i don't think being a girl sucks.....as i said i LOVE being a girl.....and this means i LOVE everything involved with being a girl.....including pregnancy..... i'm just going to agree to disagree because i'm not one to really argue over my opinions.....or others....
I have a penis and I love it. Even though he's an ugly guy, he's still fun to play with. He's my best friend, I mean who else would hang around all day in a dark cramped space and still be happy to see me when I come to call. My penis is great, it's better than any old vagina ever. Oh my penis how I love you so you are my friend and on me you grow. you are much larger than my big toe. I'm glad to have you in the winter, you let me write in the snow. And when I'm down from you happiness will surely flow. Vagina's are fun to visit, but I sure wouldn't like to have one.
Seeing as I have 7 kids and had 3 miscarriages, I can say that being pregnant was a piece of cake and you can call me weird too. Now how old do you have to be in order to have 4 kids? Some teens have their first baby in high school or soon after graduation....only takes 9 months for each pregnancy so I'll assume that you don't have to be very old to have 4 kids. Other good things about being a girl...bubble baths, flowers in my hair, voice didn't squeak during puberty, the choice to wear pants or a dress to dress up.
I am, and will be forever thankful for the ability to urinate standing up. I can understand, though, the mystique and wonder of harboring a new life. I'm sure it does have it's uncomfortable moments, but the end result is fantastic. That in no way makes anyone weird or happy that they've "trapped" someone, as so poetically stated. Some just choose to see what others take for granted as one of the miracles of life.
Do any of you people live within the relms of reality? Open your eyes, Children are cool. They make you laugh, they make you cry, but the fact remains that "harboring a life" last for at the most 10 full months, not a long period of time , then you have the kid... then the kid grows up. Motherhood is NOT easy.
Nowhere do I see that I was implying that motherhood is easy. Damn, I was a child and I know I fucking drove my mother crazy at times. But there's more to this picture than pregnancy and the burdens of raising a child. While some people may look at children as the result of a mistake and something that must be dealt with, there's the unfallible truth that you created a new life. Granted, animals do it everyday. But to me, as a human, it is a wonderful opportunity to be a major influence on a new mind. Hopefully our values will lead this person to a fulfilling and happy existence. It's not uncommon knowledge that it's not always going to be a walk in the park. But aren't the end results (hopefully) justification for the trials and tribulations one must go through? Although I did drive my mom nuts as a child, I'd like to believe that she thinks it was worth all the effort. There's very few people with which I have a relationship like that with my mother. Life isn't easy, but depending on how you look at it, it can be one hell of a fun and worthwhile experience. Now, being a male, this could all just be bullshit and I might not have any clue as to what I'm saying. And to top it off I have no children as of yet. So take it with a grain of salt. But I still look forward to the experience if it awaits me in my future.
I see what you're saying. For me pregnancy was a bad experience, there was no happy glow, only hyperemisis, fainting spells and pretty much full on misery... but the end result was my kids which I love and cherish very much Bottom line: Kids are COOL... and yes, in the end it is all worth it!