My husband makes all of my clothing decisions. He also decides how much I am allowed to eat, and when I am allowed go talk. Are you kidding? No one decides if I go topless but me. And I don't sunbathe, it's bad for your skin.
My wife doesn't sunbathe topless.... because we usually sunbathe fully nude! If she did sunbathe just topless, I'd want to see her in a thong - and I'd be wearing one too!