Tricked into Fatherhood

Yeah I knew 2 people that found that out when the kid was 8 and 12, they both still accepted the kid as their own, but wow….

I just don't trust most girls that play “ohh woops I’m pregnant’

 

that's messed up. women like that deserve to be bitch slapped by his mama.

 

I don't know her, I don't know him either...
I am just going by when people in general get pregnant without talking to their partner.. I don't think it is respectful to do that to someone.. Having a child is a huge deal, it's not like going out and getting a new couch or tv, it's bringing another life into the world... And doing that without talking to their partner before hand is just not right in my eyes...I don't know the people you speak of, I am only going by your thread title, "tricked into fatherhood" and I am just talking of the topic in general you know...

 

A bitch she may be, but anytime anyone has sex, there's ALWAYS a risk, no matter how small you think it is. Any man that dips his stick has to accept the risks and take the consequences like a man, no matter what circumstances the baby is conceived under. Just goes to show you, you gotta be reeeally careful about who you Superpoke.

 

They found out the child wasn't theirs when the kids were 8 and 12, wow, that is horrible.. How devistating...

 

Yeah. I hear ya. And I do think you are right.

maybe the thread title was a little sensationalist.

 

I agree what she did was low life, but I also agree with those who said it is his and he is responsible. You play the game you accept the consequences. Even the pill isn't 100%. My ex got pregnant 3 times the 1st 18 months we were together while taking the pill. Thay happened to end in miscarriages. After the 3rd time she went to a doctor to find out why she was getting pregnant on the pill and not able to carry to term only to find out she was pregnant again! Hence, my son.

 

i guess there's not such thing as trust in a relationship anymore. and women wonder why men freak out about commitment.

i suppose, all you can do, is use a condom all the time and never trust your woman, because it's your responsibility after all. and then, when she gets sick of the condom and says "i'm on the pill, don't you TRUST ME? if you love me you'll trust me." wtfe. if i were a man, i'd never trust a girlfriend. and i'd be getting a good ol' prenup signed before marriage.

 

not all women are horrible...or are baby hungry...

 

would YOU want to take the chance? i have little sympathy for men who get a girl pregnant after a first date or something. but a long term relationship? where there's supposed to be trust? when can a guy get a break?

 

I love my vasectomy some of the best money I ever spent.

 

no doubt.

 

he shouldnt have to. she lied and never told him she stopped taking the pill

 

so totally messed up.

 

Take a chance to what..? Accidentally have a baby and then assume the woman did it on purpose without really knowing if she did it on purpose or not.. You know shit happens, everyone is different.. But I am not going to sit here and state that all women shouldn't be trusted when I infact am a woman...
Everyone is different and frankly me assuming a whole gender is one way is something I really don't do since each human has a different brain.. This is my opinion, just like it is your opinion that all women shouldn't be trusted I guess...
If people don't want babies than wear a rubber or take other methods, that is all really....

 

My fiancee wouldn't have sex with me until he saw proof that I was on the pill. i.e. taking one out of the package and swallowing it on more then one occasion. I never had a problem with it, if I were a guy I'd do the same.

 

i don't trust woman
thats why i'm a virgin

 

is this happening in Thailand to? Is she Thai?

 

The child doesn't need someone in his/her life that doesn't want to be a part of it in the first place. Have him sign away his parental rights if he doesn't want to step up to the plate, but no way in hell can he demand she get an abortion. It's her body, whether she was right or wrong in what she did.

 

Would that make a difference?