my oldest brother met his wife when he was 14 and she was just 12 they're now 35 and 33.. still in love (lucky punkasses)
it is very possible to meet your soulmate at any stage in your life. i met the most beautiful person in the world when i was 14 and didnt even know it, look at me now, engaged to that same most beautiful person. ofcourse, things will change but that doesnt mean you have to stop loving eachother because of changes in yourself. no doubt it is true love, but also remember true love doesnt always last. i wish you the best of luck little flower. i am rooting for you peace
things change, epople change. doesnt mean your love will fail it will just mean your personality will shine thru it and take you somewhere new
I've been with my boyfriend since I was 12 and we're still together. If anything I feel that I love him more and more with each passing day. hehe Another example is my aunt. She met her husband when she was just a little kid! They lived on the same street and they played together all the time. I mean if true love can blossom out of someone you met before ever going to kindergarten I think it's very possible to met whoever is the one at any age. I mean if they're the one, they're the one.
wow, thats just the kind of story i wanted to hear on this forum i think thats really magical thank you for sharing.
it is totally possible to be in love at that age, and as for staying together, whatever will be, will be
I hate this.....the romantic in me wants to say that it is possible....but the parent in me wants to say that you are still a Baby, and 5 years from now you wont see things the same way. Slow down , I know its a wonderful feeling...verry powerful...but please , keep one foot on the ground and plan your future..dont let this love you are feeling become your everything !!
thanks for all you feedback, but he broke up with me in april, things were going bad and when his father died it ended, we didnt speak at all after it ended, i sometimes saw him with my other friends, and maybe a small hello on msn. i felt he abandoned me. he then started meeting up with my best friend whos father also died, i had a feeling they it was more then just friends, i asked her and she said no, but that if it was she would ask me if she could go out with him, and then a few weeks later, she did, i hated the position i was put in, but i said it was up to her, she called him that night to tell him how she felt (i was still in love with him, it was june) and he felt the same way about her, and when i knew he felt the same, all love for him died.
oh sweety!!! hugggs! young love, especialy 1st loves can beso damn hard but you learn from every relationship and as long as you dont let it darken your heart and lock you within self protective barriors.. you will heal and grow and shine and love again i'm so sorry..but then again, i'm glad also your dreams of the perfect love will come to you one day..whenyour ready but untill then just be free and happy hugggs ps i skimmed past 1/2the thread cause i had a feeling i knew what your last post would say...i'm sorry
I thought true love could happen at an early age, for me it was 15. But now we have broken up and she is with someone else and there has been no contact for monthes it makes me wonder if it was all just some stupid fantasy. I dont really know what love is, i assumed i was in love but love is too vague to have a true meaning. Its kinda confusing but i think true love is when you see someone, realize straight away that they are special to you and you are to them and you stay together until death, with no affairs or huge arguements in between. But that is a fantasy for most people in this day and age!
thank you so much everyone! all so kind! and Pmeth im sorry i have depressed you. Samhain has come and passed and with it has brought me a new year and a new start. I hope you all have a wonderful year filled with happiness. peace and hugs to all xxxxxx
This is why most kids don't have an understanding of love. What you are describing is infatuation period. It never lasts. True love is wanting to be with someone despite the faults, arguments and tuff times. You don't get a chance to even experience these things until you been with someone for years trying to make everything come together.
for the record he is the one who ran when it got tuff, not me. our first tiny tiff and he treated it like it was absolutely huge! no matter what anyone will say, i am the one who knows me best, and i know that i was in love. blessings
I've been with the same person since we were I was 15. I'm only 19 now but we both have changed a lot and grown up alot but we did it together. I don't feel like I was "in love" with her at 15 though, more like an infatuation. But with time, this feeling grew into love.