TRUST----->do you?

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  1. Peanuts

    Peanuts Nutz

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    I'm not so sure I would call it a manipulation. I try very hard to be optimistic. I have a lot of pessimism that I try to overcome. It's called conquerring depression.

    I do believe what I say don't get me wrong.

    I think it's a good thing.

    Thank you for having some trust in me. :)
     
  2. dawn_sky

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    I do trust my boyfriend not to fool around on me.

    I don't trust my boyfriend not to feed his boogers to my dog again...:rolleyes:
     
  3. arlia

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    just the one

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    but its not a very good one really
     
  4. Peanuts

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    Arlia, I really like that picture. Your friend hugging you looks so happy. Her facial expression looks content.
     
  5. arlia

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    that is great.desciding to be optimistic shows u have faiththat u will overcome this!
    i used to be depressed wen i was a kid,it took along time to get over it.
    it all about making te desision to live above the lies ure head tells you about yourslef and try tot hink positive............took me a good 3 years,but god held my hand all the way and was totaly there
     
  6. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    so are we posting pics now...
     
  7. arlia

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    i wasnt,i was talking to peanuts,hense why i quoted from her thread!
     
  8. arlia

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    good for you
    here have badge
    *passes bright shiny badge*
     
  9. Peanuts

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    Thank you for your sweetness.

    Your right and I think you are very mature for 19. Stay on the path your traveling. :)
     
  10. arlia

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    thnak u that is so kind of you!
    i went through alot as a kid,and if anything i learned not to put my trust in man but in god,people make mistakes,but god never changes he is always faithful and loving,and never forceful.god never leaves me!

    remember it is one step at a time,as longas you know where you want to be,that you ahve goals.witohut goals we are heading towards nothing,but a contineous circle,head towards happiness and you will get there!
    if it was done in me,it wil be done in you also
     
  11. TheChaosFactor

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    I'm not with anybody now, but I've always been extremely trusting of my partners until given reason not to be. If somebody cheats, then generally, I question them more often, but as long as I don't break up with them, I don't treat them any differently.
     
  12. arlia

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    yeah i knwo wot u mean!
    i dont give cheaters a second chance,hurt me once,u dont get a chance to do it agian!
    forgive them yes,but never give them another chance
     
  13. sooty_the_kat

    sooty_the_kat Senior Member

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    never forgive and never forget!

    live the rage
     
  14. arlia

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    forgiveness odes not justify what the person did but it liberates you from bitterness and fear to trust someone
     
  15. TheChaosFactor

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    who has been making fun of your forehead? I'm confused as fuck now? I'm sooo tired, I wouldn't know what was going on even if it did make sense.
     
  16. Peanuts

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    I'm thankful I was given a second chance. Now I am a his wife (of 9 years) and the mother of his children. AND today we have TRUST.

    Not the same person I used to be but I had my demons before marriage.
     
  17. arlia

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    THAT IS AMAZING PEANUTS!
    im glad that u got ure second chance.
    i guess im jsut a little protective of myself with the whole love tihng,i have had people cheat on me my whole life,hense why i dont date anyone anymore,but wait for the perosn i know im meant to be with,i guess we all work in different ways
     
  18. Peanuts

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    I think my husband is amazing. He taught me a lot in that whole experience.

    No exuses for what I did. I was young, selfish, and bitter. Not a good combination.

    Having someone's trust is sacred. This I have learned.
     
  19. Super_Grrl

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    Wow, this thread got seriously hijacked... no surprise there though. Peanuts, I like the idea for this thread :) Trust is such a huge thing!

    I trust my boyfriend, although it took a while... the guy before him had seriously burned me, I thought I would never get over the pain of that. But here we are, 16 months later, fine and dandy :) Trust takes work, but it's worth it.

    Arlia, I like the shirt you're wearing in that other pic you posted. Very snazzy!
     
  20. Jennifer19

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    I don't have one
     
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