Uh....help?

Nigga, what the fuck is you talking about?

 

Okay, I've decided not to go after the 16 year old. However, there are kinda two other girls. One of the girls is in my class & she really did like me which was evident because she would always smile when I talked to her & all that stuff. So, when I actually asked her, the first time she said she had three boyfriends, then the next day said she only had one, & then eventually said she didn't know if she'd go out with me. Then, this other girl said she just got out of a bad relationship & said she was hit & all that so she doesn't trust getting into a relationship. Right now my strategy is to get the second girl to start being more trustworthy by talking & interacting with her as much as possible. So, what all could I do to get her to be more trusting.

 

sounds like she's smart enough not to make the same mistake twice. she's watching you to see if she can feel safe with you. she'll be looking for any signs of a bad temper, tendency toward violence, or poor self-control. she will be extremely sensitive to any indications that you have these characteristics and will err on the side of caution....in which case you can just forget it. so macho posturing wouldn't be a good idea. being low-key, laid-back, on the quiet side, warm and friendly is the way to go. but you really shouldn't bother if all you want is to get lucky. this girl will be way too much work for that. trust me.

 

Uh, I don't want to do her, I want to date her. And I don't go for the macho look or get violent with girls so I'm in the clear.