unsatisfied in bed

Sorry I don't know how you can fuck a guy and yet not be blunt with him. The only solution is to tell him to do gown on you. he cannot read your mind. If he doesn't like it then he'll tell you and you can go from there otherwise you're getting nowhere by keeping your mouth closed.

 

I never said I wasn't getting any pleasure at all, that's ridiculous. I even said that it's satisfying in more ways than one. All I said was that I'm not having an orgasm. I'm not lying to him, I'm not faking it, I'm just not comfortable enough to say "go down on me!" We have only been dating a few weeks, calm down!

 

How can you spread your legs for some dude that you don’t trust to not judge you?

As I reread the posts in this thread I find a bunch of good advice, and I also see you blowing it off and continuing to whine.

If you are just trolling, then I award you a D+ in Beginning Trolling 101, else I recommend you go back and reread the posts. Pay attention to MaryJohn, Sarahrei, Musikero, WrathofJade, Clever_Username, Wizard, me, and SophieClair, Follow the advice or not, but please stop the whining.

 

Ok here the thing if you have only been dating for a couple weeks then why are you having sex? Its not like your demanding he go down on you. I don't think anyone has any different kind of advice for you. I think your the one that really need to chill out and if your not having an orgasm its your fault, because you are not telling him what you want in bed. Plain and simple, so if your not willing to take any advice that was already given (cause most is gonna be the same thing) then you can continue having sex and not getting an orgasm.

Tiffany

 

Also try masturbating more figure out your own body. Rub your clit while he is having sex with you. Put a cock ring on his cock. When he is done getting himself off, have him use a vibrater on you. There more suggestions.

 

guiltyconscience - - If you don't heed what Dr. SophieClair has advised you, then IMO you deserve what you get as a consequence of hard headedness.

Good luck in your life. This old Troll's oughta here.



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I'm not hard headed, I'm just shy. It's honestly that simple. I'm not trying to whine, I don't feel like I came across that way, but I'm sorry if you read it that way. I'm not trolling, I don't even understand why you would think that. And I appreciate all the advice, I didn't blow any of it off, I didn't realize I was suppose to acknowledge each person, I thought by saying "You guys are right" it was obvious that I agreed with most of you.

And for the record, I don't understand what is so wrong about sleeping with someone I have been dating for a few weeks. I think that's pretty normal for someone my age, IMO.

I usually seem to get open and friendly advice on these forums, so I will continue to ask for advice. OldTroll if you don't like my posts or the way I respond to your advice then feel free to ignore them from now

Thanks everyone for the advice, I'll take it from here....

 

No one is saying it's wrong that you are sleeping with someone you've known for a few week only that you shouldn't be if you can't even be straight with the guy.

 

Next time he gets down to your belly button push his head into your vagina.
Lmfao.

 

You need to be honest with him, maybe he doesn't know that you haven't had a orgasm. I know that most of the men that I've been with go insane at the thought that I haven't enjoyed myself and it makes them put that little bit more effort in.

You really shouldn't be having sex with someone if your too shy to ask them to do something for you. I mean, if you think that asking for oral is hard, how was it if you asked if he had any STD's?

 

I don't think any of you are understanding what I have said over and over again. It has nothing to do with my comfort level with him in particular. I have a hard time being blunt with people in general.

I asked some girlfriends who know me for advice and they helped me take care of the problem. I would really appreciate the topic to be dropped, if I could delete it myself I would. I don't like what people seem to be implying about me, so thank you everyone for trying to help but I don't need advice anymore.