Use your sex to your advantage?

I don't at all. I don't even flirt!! If a guy wants to buy me a drink at the bar and I'm not interested in him, I don't let them buy me one. I hate it when girls bat their eyelashes a few times just to get a free drink and when they had enough, they disappear on the poor loser. I just always act natural. If I want to get out of a speeding ticket or get VIP treatment, I don't really have to do anything. No need to flirt at all. I don't even think I know how to flirt. lol. I can fake it if I want, I'm actually a webcam model and do pretty well but in reality I just talk to people and try to connect instead of playing all cutsie with every guy in hopes that I get my way.

 

I don't either. I have no interest in hitting on a person I'm not interested in. I don't care what bonuses I could get from it.

Plus my flirting is very, very subtle anyway, mostly because I feel corny if I layer it on. It can be interpreted as just being friendly.
So it wouldn't do any good anyway.

 

Are you kidding?
Free drinks are awesome...
and...
free

 

I can be a bit of a flirt sometimes, but I just like hanging with guys. My husband and I have agreed that I can have a girlfriend, but not a boyfriend (One man in my love life is quite enough...), so I can chat with men and not deal with sexual tension. It's better if my husband can hang with them, too.

Women are a little different. I can actually be attracted to them, which complicates the friendship. And all too often, well, my husband is very attractive and a damned good catch. While I wouldn't mind another woman in the relationship most of the chicks who drool over him will obviously not share with me. Not cool.

As for power, I have been known to play with the power of DD-cups. Mostly for amusement, for both me and my spouse. For all serious business, I find that sexuality becomes an annoyance and a hindrance. And I don't get pulled over often, but a flirty cop quickly finds a line roughly similar to "gimme my ticket and leave." I don't like uniforms anyway.

 

I have read a few of the comments, and it's obvious some women are happy flaunting their sexuality.

Why do you complain about sexist treatment? So many threads have contained our female members rants about mens idealisation of women, our disregarding treatment towards women and frankly us men being sexist- when all this time you will happily admit to flashing some boob, offering a man a cheeky wink, whatever, just to get your own way.

It's hypocritical. If you want that promotion, knuckle down and do some good work like the rest of us. If you are worried that because you're a woman you may not get look in, maybe you should consider your response here and wonder why the world isn't changing as quickly as you anticipated.

 

I do....

Like at work if i want one of the other floor people this dude named justin to do something for me i will just kind of give him a look and flirt a little... hehe. Thats a great thing aabout the dudes at work thinking your cute... flirt with them and you can get what you want....


i worked at a gentlemen's club and i used to flirt witht hem but i didn't even have to talk to most guys usually they would call me over and ask me if i wanted a drink then they would go on about stuff and we would sit and talk... it was nice.. usually if the guy was cool enough i would waste like an hour just talking and he would buy me drinks.

i have a friend that can make herself fake cry anytime she wants... we were talking about it and she showed mea nd she just started bawling... i was like i wsih i could do that. haha.


I don't see anything wrong with it.. dudes take advantage of their sex when they can also.

 

Basically this. Through biological evolution women's visual sex appeal has more advantages since men are generally much more visually stimulated, but it still doesn't change the fact men do it as much as they can too. Different bodies aside men are still pretty restricted in culturally what they can wear, especially in the professional world. But still, suits are designed to make shoulders broader, necks thicker, wrists thicker, give a clean V shape, ect. Men may have less to work with, but few guys go out to anywhere important without trying to look their most attractive too.

 

all the time

 

Fake crying. How lame
I feel sorry for all those guys who fall for that.

And for once, I agree with stacy lulu.

 

it doesn't make sense...


you don't even know how to flirt but you can fake it?

 

she does it to get away with tickets.

 

I firmly agree with this.

 

Theres a difference when you flash a smile to get by and when you flash your tits to get by....

 

.....or when you fake crying in order to manipulate.

 

The difference is this thread says sex, and not smile.

I just don't think it's fair. Do I ogle at your tits or don't I??? ... geez

 

sex as in GENDER.

 

i can't fake cry.....

 

I just flashed back to a scene in 3rd Rock from the sun, during a PTA meeting, when Sally looks all perplexed at the principal and says "I'm sorry, but there's something about the size of your neck that makes me think you'd be an agile hunter and provide well for our offspring..." ROFL.

And to the fake criers... Oooooh, I hate you. It really does make you look like a wimp. Realize that many of your targets, whether your tears are real or not, will make fun of a crier as soon as she's gone.

And don't feel bad about looking at breasts, boys. Many of the girls are looking too, they just won't admit it.

 

I love 3rd rock from the sun.


ooohhh yyeaaaa...

 

Well that's good.
It's just too silly and cheap.

And 'she does it to get away with tickets' is no excuse.
She got those tickets for a reason, might as well pay them.

But if some girls choose to do it that way, then they should never be the ones to say: Oh I get treated differently just because I am female, it's so not fair.