Virgin at 28 (Need advice)

I’m of the socially awkward and shy type. I’m a 41 year old virgin male. It’s very hard not to give up and just accept that I’m going to die a virgin. But I keep hope.

 

There are girls out there that are the same way. Maybe a singles club or?

 

Suck it in and get out there, there must be plenty of females around your age who are gagging for it and a good relationship, but you wont get one filling sorry for yourself, so you need to get where women go and be there.

For a start get where they are and start talking to them, and with them to you start filling warm amongst them and happy taking with them, when you get to that point and are happy time to start getting them out for a drink or a meal, and don't be flash just be warm to them and let them be warm to you, do that are your half way there to a happy relationship.

 

***please skip new guy learning ropes here***

 

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Hi I figure this is late for you but not next guy reading this in similar dilemma. Tell her you're a virgin . If she asks why tell her you wanted to save yourself for the right woman or right moment. Be honest. There are way too many good women out there to turn you down because you are a virgin. I was same you like you but older. I didn't tell the woman I was with until after sex , and she told me I should've have told her, not because she wanted to not have sex with me on hearing that but because she wanted to make my experience more memorable, great teacher though (she was older).[/QUOTE]

 

I really think you'd be making a mistake not telling her. It figures that you get on with this girl and it's obvious she likes you enough to sleep with you, I'm sure this relationship would be able to handle you telling her that you're a not actually that experienced and you get carried away in the text?

Sex I think is one of the very few things in the world that you can wing without your partner knowing. I wouldn't even tell her you're a virgin, just tell her you haven't had a lot of experience!

I think she'd be grateful that you were truthful to her and she'll probably put that little bit more effort in trying to show you the ways.

Tell us how it goes.

 

If you would have read the thread you would have seen the result. He already told how it went over a month ago. Here's your answer = Virgin at 28 (Need advice)