hahahaha i know exactly what you mean. I also hate the term "making love" it reminds me of the first time my mom had the "sextalk" with me, and told me she doesnt like calling it sex, she prefers making love. And i vomited on her shoes. Anyways, i've got to disagree with the fact that now a days sex is rarely as sweet. When you're in love and you screw, it's awesome. Random sex....not so much.....it might feel as good down there, but when u do it with someone you're in love with, it feels good all over. I like "makin lalalaloooove" better than just fucking. mmmm on the grass.......rawrrrr.......shower time.
Making love just sounds incredible. eh. I've had sex, but I've never made love. It's something I hope I can experience eventually, but right now I'm happy having fun.
Anything I say on this subject would just basically be pretentious, because I haven't done either. Ha, you know what, I missed out on a major scar-inducing rite of childhood; my parents never had the "birds and the bees" talk with me. And frankly, I'm incredibly okay with that. I never want to think about it and them In anywhere near the same moment. Oh man, Lysol?...is his sister named Windex?
that is so true......but i have heard neither of those names. where do you live in wisconsin? im sure youve told me before...
I don't think you were negative at all, its like why pretend to be what your not, what's wrong with just admitting that sex is pleasurable and enjoyable, and you don't have to "make" anything you can just enjoy the experience together. I think asking to make love just sounds fake, nothing at all wrong with asking to have sex with somebody though.
I have experienced both. To me the difference is this, when you make love, there is this overwhelming emotional/spiritual connection that is happening. It's not about getting off, or geting your partner off, however if it happens, it's so much more memorable than the physical feelings that are going on. It's so much more beautiful, and meaningful, you can experience the real purpose behind it. That's the best way I can put it into words. Fucking is just that, you fuck, you try to feel good, maybe make your partner feel good, but there is no emotional/spiritual connection happening. Hopefully I'm not the only person that feels this way...
lets not forget that making love still happens in these days...... there is a difference between fucking/sex and making love.